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2007-03-07 00:49:04 · 14 answers · asked by boyofkashmir 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to stop being so selfish! It is not fair to either one of those. You must not know how it feels to really care about someone knowing the whole time he cares for someone else!!! That must be painful for both of them, but here you are posting this on the internet for the world to see!! Like it is some joke, no one here can tell you what to do, you have to do this on your own and fast! You need to spend a little time alone to decide one way or the other. If you keep this up you will loose both of them!
Maybe you should break up woth both since you can't make up your mind, Ii'm sure there is a couple other fellows out there that treat each one like the "ONLY SPECAIL ONE" for them!
2007-03-07 00:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation. The only real solution is to get them both together and tell them you are in love with both of them and want them both to come live with you. If you think that's unrealistic perhaps you are really afraid of them finding out about each other and you might lose both of them. That's exactly what's going to happen if you don't take action now. You're going to end up without either one of them if you don't get them together and compare them as you explain the situation. The top one for you will become very obvious in a very short time. If you end up without both of them then it will be obvious that neither one really cared that much about you.
2007-03-07 08:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by pianofritz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry both... lol
You are sick. You don't even understand what love is. You strictly need some counselling. How did you make out thet you love them? I mean what was the criteria you looked at before coming up to such a conclusion.
When a person says that he loves a girl, how can he justify his acts of betrayal. You are infact betraying both of them for your desires. You are not trying to give any improtance to them but just to yourself. Just get down to basics. Learn to understand your own emotions. If you don't, you would end up with neither of them.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-07 15:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious indeed . Why not get the 3 of you together and discuss it over coffee in the morning . I'm sure the girls will have some concrete ideas on how you should handle the situation.
2007-03-07 08:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lowell R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realy love them you would break up with them because you wouldn't want to hurt the. Trust I have been the girl in this type of situation and I can not begin to tell you how much it hurt and it still effects me nearly a year on.
I know you think you love them but you don't if you loved one of those chicks you wouldn't have the other and you defenitly wouldn't be asking us for advice.
2007-03-07 09:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn both of them out and have a threesome lol just playing do what i do on my many dayz men fight over me lmao write a pros and cons list and if that doesn't work introuduce them two eachother and the life of all of yall livin together and they can have other boy friends to and you can have other gf but if your not in to sharing go with the first idea a pros and con list and who ever passes that gets to be the lucky girl on your arm!
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2007-03-07 09:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Peachez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy lol. Want to increase the number further from two through your E-mail ?
2007-03-07 11:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they both know, and are ok with this( Which i doubt) you are going to loose them both. Maybe is time to be alone for a while And think.
2007-03-07 08:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by pas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not interested to give my id to you but i can surely give you a solution. find out who loves you more the first one or the second one and marry her .period.it is better to be loved than to love. best of luck.u really need it man
2007-03-07 08:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Misty N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love them then,leave both of them ,that would be best thing you would do for them.Atleast they will not feel cheated by you .
2007-03-07 08:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by APNim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋