ok so i need some advice, i went through a **** relationship recently. and ive heard lots of crap where lots of my girlfriends have been humped and dumped. ive always wanted to lose my virginity to someone special, but the thought of gettin hurt again and going thru **** kills me, is it ethically wrong to lose my virginity to a an ex bf, who is now my friend. like ive asked him to take it as a friend so it would not bring forth any attachments and hence no emotional pain. at the same time im losin it to someone i care about and trust as he's a good friend.
2007-03-07 00:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by damn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really a question only you can answer. Since non of us will feel guilt or attachments but yourself. Just make sure you are sure you want to do that...is losing your virginity so sudden that important to you? I would say there's much more other stuff to think about than just going out and losing your virginity just cause you don't want to get hurt in the future. The fact is....that's life...it's not like ur gonna lose ur virginity and all of a sudden not go through any more ****. Just wait for a special time...don't just give it up cause you wanna "prevent" stuff...give it up when you are ready and want to!
2007-03-07 00:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would not advice such a thing as with sex especially for the first time, there is a little emotional content and if it is to a friend, you'll nearly always be jealous of any girlfriends he will have later as before you know it, if you like the experience, you both may go at it again and again and that may make it difficult to have good relationships with others because you know you can always get "it" somewhere else, with your "friend". I f all you want to do is lose your virginity, go with someone who will be a one night stand :-)
2007-03-07 00:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by brainbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with losing your virginity to a friend. however, most women associate sex with a deep emotional bond. since i don't know you, i can't say for sure, but there's a good chance that you will fall in love with your friend. and if he doesn't end up feeling the same way then you will be in the same **** situation as before.
2007-03-07 01:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by hunting wabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You adult adult males are thirteen! you do no longer ought to have intercourse yet. I went to a intense college with a brilliant number of pregnant women. tell those adult adult males the flaws that should take place. tell them even a condom isn't a hundred% risk-free. One time can exchange their lives continuously.
2016-12-18 17:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by zissler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an excellent idea. Seriously, good thinking.
2007-03-07 01:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someday you will regret it, I'm just 19 years old and i regret my first time... you shouldn't give something so valuable to an ex boyfriend
2007-03-07 00:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋