We were dating for 3 weeks and making out during that time. She said she wanted to take it slow and I tried honoring that. She said that I make her smile and she likes being with me, but at the end of the day she wants to be friends. She also said that I knew how to turn her on. So what do I do?
2007-03-07 00:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by siyafrica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is saying nice stuff, but that just means she likes you enough to want to let you down gently.
You havent been with her long enough to have any right to know whether the problem is about you or about her, so just be flattered and honoured that she thinks you are a really nice person and she is doing everything she can to make you feel safe about this being over.
Then wrap your head round it being over and be happy you have such a caring friend. If you are a gentleman about this and just get on with living your life, then maybe if it turns out it was just nerves, she will feel safe enough to tell you.
2007-03-07 00:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by madbaggage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious. She's obviously unsure of what she wants which isn't necessarily a bad thing but it's not a great thing either. Talk to her & see what she says then add more details to this question to get a more solid answer from people.
2007-03-07 08:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Paul P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but looks like she wasnt seriuos about the relationship....dont b hurt about it ..thats just my analysis of it ..itd Okay ...i mean what she said r emotions about u making her smile...emotions like these dont fade in a second from being more than friends to freinds ..its Okay life goes on ...maybe shes not the one ...and maybe that had to happen anyway ...smile!
2007-03-07 08:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by dina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true. Why don't you just be upfront with how you feel. She could be just shy and a bit scared that she might scare you off by offering too much too soon
2007-03-07 08:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision if that's all she ever wants to be with you.
2007-03-07 08:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have good humour to make them happy
2007-03-07 08:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!
2007-03-07 08:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋