i want to go out with on of my friends he was really never a friend to me because i like him to much and my friend sais that he doesn't like girls that are as big as me but i don't find that completely true i think he likes me he just wishes i was smaller i have know him for 4 years and i have no clue what to do im going to see him on friday what should i do
2007-03-06 23:57:33 · 2 answers · asked by ♥kristie♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go girl! I would try to flirt with him in subtle ways and see if he responds. Or try to ask his a hypothetical question (jokingly) "What would you do if a girl like me asks you out?" And then if he freaks out- just say you were joking. tHats what I did in highschool.
And if he indeed doesnt like "bigger girls" than he wasnt good for you anyway. THe true good guys like a girl for who she is on the inside. The last thing we need is another superficial guy in this world. Im sure you heard this all before!
Good luck!
2007-03-07 00:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice, play it on the down low. Be yourself and make the call yourself without heeding what your friends are saying. If you really like this guy and want to make some improvements ask him to go check gyms out with you or even take a aerobic's class. I myself am not a petite size 5 but rather a curvy woman. I participate in sports such as karate where I can throw around what weight I have and still stay fit. I've been in your shoes and have done all the above to land men.
2007-03-07 00:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋