I really like this girl at school, but I don't know if she likes me either. The hard part is, i dont know her very well, so i dont know how to tell her that i really like her. We don't share too many of the same classes, so i don't have much time to see her either. It's just that, when i'm around her, i swell up and get all nervous all the time. She is nice and outgoing, and she says hi to me. Thats about it though...I dont know what to do!
2007-03-06 23:49:27 · 6 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
may i ask, when she says hi do you answer back and smile at her? try it, you wont get past 'swelling up and get nervous " unless you have the confidence to smile back, do this 3x times,on an 'accidental basis" after that greet her again but this time tell her your name with a smile then ask her things that are on common ground,like the course she's taking,year level, blahblahblah,but always with a smile and look at her straight in the eye, (sometimes telling her that you like her at once makes a lusty impression coz as you say u dnt know each other well), but dont take up so much time talking to her on the first try, try the "mystery style", tell her that you still have smthing to do even if you dont...wait a day or two then do the smiling thing again if she responds immediately then you got stuck on her mind too,start a conversation and work your way up from there,but always remember that it takes two to tango, dont try telling her all about you, ask hers too, got it? now move it!
2007-03-07 03:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by BlueAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Direct. It has to be you. Stop her in the hall, or start walking the way she is so you don't have to get awkward looking at your feet. Ask her to do something. Confirm that she likes you back right then and there.
2007-03-06 23:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, don't be shy! Approach her and try to start friendship with her first to see if you two can go further.
Most lovers start from being good friends :)
Good luck!
2007-03-06 23:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her!! just try ur darndest to talk to her! ask her about the classes that you'r in together, like ask her for help about some of the work, orsomething like that! then you can try to become friends and THEN i recon u shud ask her out!
2007-03-06 23:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show interest , you can never know what another person is thinking , show interest - and follow your heart. , if an oppurtunity comes about go in with confidence or not at all.. good luck
2007-03-06 23:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to come in from a friendship approach and work your way in from there
2007-03-06 23:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋