She broke up with me because she said that she didn't think that she could love me the way that I deserved to be loved. After a few weeks I think that I understand what she was talking about and feel that maybe I didn't love her that way either. Our relationship started with us sleeping together so is it possible that that is the only good thing that we had? And if so, would I be wrong to tell her that and see if we could just be f*** buddies? I know that sounds terrible but we both really enjoyed the sex and when we weren't able to have it because of our schedules we both kind of drifted apart.
2007-03-06 23:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No!!!
You r Good friends don't destroy that for sex.
You can find sex everywhere.
You respect each other and this is nice.
Don't say that to her.
If u meet, and then you have sex because you both felt like it ok.
But don't tell her that.
You will make her feel chip
2007-03-06 23:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude. Same situation- Different Role. I broke up with my boyfriend because I plan on leaving in three months and I fanasize about other men constantly. Plus I just found him unfit to be to be my life partner. I;m 22 so no one could be really I just have too much to take care of before thinking of settling. But yeah, the sex was/is great. I screwed him on our first date, which was a mistake because he never had to work hard for it, but ever since then I've been playing catch up, trying to make it illicit and fun. We *almost * split maybe 6 times before and after each time we would go at it and he would finally give me the good stuff that I craved, not just punch in punch out, and hope the job was done.
So now, he moved into an apt next door to me, and I ended our exsclusivity. I come home from work around 4am and alot of the time I am mad horny.
I think that you will be able to use your best judgement and have casual sex. you guys arealready intimate, respectful of eachother's needs and comfortable with the nekkid-ness.
Keep in mind though!! Women are not like men sexually. We only need one good time a month wheras you need about 20 days to up your average of replicating your DNA. Your ex might be thrilled but it also presents an issue for her because she won't be able to move on, think clearly and start to learn how to "Love people the way they deserve to be loved"
Instead of perpetuating old patterns, if the relationship really is dead. Why not get a profile at match.com for 70 bucks and be assured of at least 5 great dates?
2007-03-06 23:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both slept together right away you did not take the time to get to know each other and the sexual attraction could be all that you had together. Does she call you and say lets hook up, if she is giving you the signals of waiting only sex from you then go for it but if not then move on.
2007-03-06 23:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I study sufficient take off that collar and run. era. Time to rfile each and every thing she does. Emotional blackmail. straight forward that chick is poisonous. Batter get one step earlier than her or she'll make you existence a residing hell. Sorry pal you picked a real winner. Ooch. call her bluff yet be waiting for a conflict. the earlier you get her out of your existence the greater effective. I had a matching subject with the lads mom. Took me a on an identical time as to get her out of my hair.
2016-10-17 11:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being f*ck buddies so long as you're 2 consenting adults, just make sure if either of you ever gets involved with someone else that you put a stop to it or people will get hurt.
2007-03-06 23:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine_honey69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she knew that before you did and has moved on I suggest you do the same. Find yourself a new**** buddy if that's all that is important to you.
2007-03-06 23:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex buddies? do people still exist that have sex for its true reasons and not cuz it feels good? where is the emotional and spiritual connection to another person? i dont get it. what is this world truning into? i guess if she is ok with it, then yeah. be **** buddies.
2007-03-06 23:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guest so since if you loved her right the other way you should just go the other way
2007-03-06 23:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just trying to be nice. She doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore.
2007-03-06 23:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is as comfortable with that as you are, why not?
2007-03-06 23:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋