I'm am due to start a new job with a large company next month. Through a dating website, I've been contacted by a v. cute guy who works there already, in the same department but is one grade up from me. I've said to him I might be coming to work there and he says he doesn't have a problem with that and loads of people there date each other anyway. He seems lovely, am I being too careful saying no under the cirsumstances ?
2007-03-06 23:19:56 · 24 answers · asked by juliet c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now discovered - I will be sitting behind him!!! Still a good idea?
2007-03-10 22:38:22 · update #1
date him.
2007-03-06 23:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful, I dated someone senior to me at work and hated having to see him every day when it ended, especially as everyone knew about it. Go for it but if you can try and keep it quiet for a while.
On the other hand I interviewed someone for a job when I was a manager and then ended up marrying him!!! The perks of being the boss! LOL!
2007-03-07 10:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by SarahLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would need to check company policy on this. I personally don't date people through work. If it ends badly, you still have to see them at work every day, and deal with the gossip mill. All that junk for a relationship, that like any relationship, may or may not work out.
2007-03-07 07:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the company's policies? If they don't have a problem, then I don't see why not. Just realize if it doesn't work out that things may get very uncomforatble with the two of you being in the same department.
2007-03-07 07:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can make the decision for you , only you know if you could cope with a break up and still face him and the gossip mongers each day, could you really sit behind him each day if he dumped you or your relationship ended badly it may not, things may be perfect between you both ,but you have to way up the pros and cons, most work places discourage staff from having relations due to such problems.
2007-03-11 14:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO AT U ,, DO THIS,, pack your luggage for your days when you are 90 and in a nursing home, then put his pictures and memories in there and that your mind could not decide in 2007,, and go from there lol girlssssssssssss who say we are cute, but does nothing but talks bad about there guys to girls in chat and lies too most of them do anywheys,,
ok,, do that,, it will make you happy,,,, that pour fella.
2007-03-15 03:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep relationships and work separated, you could have a fling with the guy though, but nothing serious. Unless you wouldn't mind looking for another job when it doesn't work out
2007-03-07 07:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it's not going to stop you from working to the best that you can i see nothing wrong with it, don't only date him because hes cute though...make sure you can really get along with this guy.
best of luck
2007-03-15 05:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by Devilsadvocate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Find out about him (from others in the office) and if he passes, date him!
Good luck with that and the new job!
2007-03-13 16:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him. It will only cause problems in your new job if it all goes wrong. There are plently of other men out there. Good luck with your new job. x x x
2007-03-13 15:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by picklexxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋