I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
2007-03-06 23:15:03 · 6 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you talk to her in person that might help you should tell her how you feel and if she still loves you their is a chance for you to get back wit her. But i know how u feel and their nothing wrong going for your girl
Good Luck
2007-03-06 23:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! sorry to hear about everything that has gone on in your life lately. I hope things are looking up a bit now.
Usually I would say NEVER get back with an ex but in these circumstances I don't think it would be a bad thing. If you have already sent her lots of emails and letters I would leave it at that, like you said, you don't want to seem obsessed! Give her some time to get in touch with you but don't wait forever. If she does get in touch you two will have some serious talking to do, relationships are a 'partnership' which means you should endure things together and you abviously have some issues opening up to her.
I wish you all the best.
2007-03-06 23:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine_honey69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the letters hold on to them. When you lose someone's trust it takes time to gain it back. Start by being her friend don't push for her to come back. She admitted she still loves you yet she is hurt and it takes time to deal with the pain she feels. Give her time be there when she needs a friend, listen don't judge. In time she just might see she wants to start anew with you. As for her 16 year old boyfriend that is young and at that age they are immature it wont last, reserve judgement be a friend and give it time.
2007-03-06 23:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still love her, then try to g ofor her... but wait first. Right now she only wants to be friends, and she's with someone else too. You'd be provoking her to cheat if yo utell her you love her and want to get bac k together again. Don't make yourself obsessed - stop right there with the e-mails. And if yo uguys do get back together, learn from your mistakes.
2007-03-06 23:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEND THE E-MAIL! TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER! BECAUSE SHE OBVIOUSLY FEELS THE SAME..... AND IT DOESN'T SOUND LIKE HJER RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS 16 YR OLD IS GOING TO WORK OUT! SHE'LL TAKE YOU BACK....... IF THAT'S WHAT YOU REALLY WANT.
2007-03-06 23:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by youdidnotjustsaythat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy when my ex-broke up with me i made her realize a bunch of thingsi recomend the songs "Best I ever had" "Over and Over" BOth are by Tim Mcgraw
2007-03-06 23:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋