Do I need to let her go, I realy do love her and she seems like she doesn't want to grow up. The last thing I need right now is for my heart to be broken
2007-03-06 23:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by furlowredneck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say it but yes you have the right to get upset and you need to let her go. She is obviously not mature enough to be in an adult relationship. In my experience 9/10 times when a girl doesn't see a problem just sleeping in the same bed with another guy she won't have a problem sleeping with another guy either. You already know the answer here, just trust your gut even though it may hurt your heart.
2007-03-06 23:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh..she's must be some piece of work - to brain wash you to the extent that you wonder if your wrong to be upset if she gets into bed with other men.
Please, asking, moaning, fighting and discussing and begging and and and is not gonna help her grow up..give her a taste of good old reality, sure does work wonders.
If it carries on like this, then that's exactly what you're gonna end up with, a broken heart. Rather end it now and deal with the loss while your not in too deep. You'll be okay.
2007-03-07 07:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some issues. I would leave her alone, or you will end up with your heart broke. Come on you are a male, why would a male allow another women to sleep in their bed. Hmm, with the hopes that she will say yes. Chances are she is saying yes to a great deal of men. Good luck and God bless****
2007-03-07 07:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does seem rather unappropriate for someone your dating to be doing, no matter if it is completely platonic or not. I would definitely say let this one go. You may love her, but until she grows up, it looks like you would be heading to a long road of heart break. better to break it off now than to wait it out and get even more attached, because then its harder and more painful to let go. good luck to you!
2007-03-07 07:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her hot freind.. you know the one with the curves in all the right places.. flawless skin and hair that any other woman would die for to sleep in the same bed as you... and do this infront of your "girlfreind"
2007-03-07 07:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's playing games or she's playing you. If she doesn't want to grow up there's nothing you can do about it. Why put your heart on the line in the process? Buh-bye.
2007-03-07 07:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by °ĠיִяĿỵ° 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not wrong for getting upset. i wud be furious. u shud tell her that u dont like it and that she musnt do it coz in ur eyes its wrong and if she still says its okay then i think u shud leave her...otherwise ur heart wud be broken.gud luck....
2007-03-07 07:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by tinkabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is she sleeping in bed with. guy friends or family members or what? if it is a guy friiend, i think bad idea. if she knows how you feel about it and she is stilldoing it, she is not ready for a relationship.
2007-03-07 07:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....if you stay with someone who believes that this is ok, you are sure to get your heart broken...time to move on...good luck
2007-03-07 07:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes let her go if she is your g/f and you are allowing her to do it your at fault also No its not right she is probably doing them also wake up..
2007-03-07 07:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋