Ok, like my mum I keep asking questions until I'm satisfied with the answer.I don't know if you've seen my questions before, but I'll ask one of them for the third time. What's the LEAST forward way possible to ask a guy out? We don't really get much time in private, I don't want to ask one of my friends to ask, and I can't just walk up to him and go "hey, wanna do something sometime?". I probably sound a tad closed minded but I think about asking him out more and more each day, and every time I ask I get the same answers that don't do me any good. (Oh, and don't worry about saying things like are you sure he's the right guyt etc, I've known that for quite some time) (Ps I am quite shy, so this is a huge thing for me, keep that in mind)
2007-03-06 23:07:16 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(If you don't quite understand the "every time I ask I get the same answers that do me no good" part, I'm referring to the question I'm asking right now. I realise I didn't word it quite right)
2007-03-06 23:09:45 · update #1
"Can you expand more, What are the circumstances which you see him? Is it at work or school??? How do you know him?"
I see him on the bus to and from school, walking from the bus stop to school (we talk on the bus and usually when walking), It's pretty much the bus and when I see him at school (we have 1 class together), We went to primary school together and now high school.
2007-03-07 19:48:21 · update #2
Hi. I'm very shy to and it's crazy hey! feeling like that. When I was in high school I would write a letter and just pass it along to him or ya know just give him hints here and there. You said you hardly have time in private so girl you just have to get it out when you do have time, just do it (Nike style). I know your shy but you like him alot and suppose another girl isn't so shy and goes and asks him out then what, you lose out because you were shy! Come on now all it takes is two minutes. Just blurt it out, like hey I've been meaning to ask you, would you like to go out sometime. It's as simple as that otherwise time you get around to it he will be taken, so either you want him or you don't. Don't let your shyness rule your life otherwise you will miss out on the world.
Chow.
2007-03-06 23:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you expand more, What are the circumstances which you see him? Is it at work or school??? How do you know him?
So if you know him from school and you guys are doing the same class, maybe you can say "Im really confused about .... or I just cant seem to understand ......" Then he should say "Well I can help you with that" OR If he says he is having trouble with something, say "Oh I can help you with that, we can work on it together"
If its at work follow him when he goes to lunch, like try to get in the lift with him when there is no one else around and say 'Hey I heard of this really great coffee place its just 2 blocks down, My friend said she was going to come but she cant now so do you want to come?"
If he is sporty or likes a type of sport for example tennis. Say to him I heard you like tennis, I just started playing with some friends and we a looking for another doubles partner this weekend, do you want to play? Whatever just make it up as you go along.
Well I hope this helps you
2007-03-06 23:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
if he is the right guy, he will notice yor good points, and will be interested in you already, and if he has not approached you, maybe he is shy as well! Just be yourself, tell your self that you deserve friendship and happiness, so does your sole mate, so with this in mind, you must be together, so develope the courage and inner belief by reading self help books, and motivtional tapes, then just approach the person you want. The worst thing that can go wrong is they say no! Sure you will feel bad, at first but its better to know than to be wondeing. And it would be their loss wouldnt it? Good luck, and believe in yourself!
2007-03-06 23:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by David L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a guy to ask you out, you have talk to him. Hints do not work. Communication only works with direct verbal exchanges, indirect leads to complications and indecission.
You never sure he is right guy, that is why parents always tell children not to do it until married.
So go out have fun but know most boys are not thinking about the right one and marriage and family.
2007-03-06 23:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by bright_neon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to him at all? Start a conversation and in the middle somewhere say you are hungry and you want to go to get something to eat. Tell him or ask him to go with you. Guys love it when girls ask them to do stuff... He is probably thinking the same about you...
2007-03-06 23:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by rostang50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what the 4th graders do... Have a friend pass him a note. If he says no, then at least you're rejected via a third party. Good Luck, if he doesn't go out with you, thens he's doesn't know what he's missing. You rock girl!
2007-03-06 23:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you could try talking to him and making some eye contact. Smile at him when he looks at you. Be Patient.
OR
Write him a love letter
hope it helps
2007-03-06 23:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by remy l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've pretty much ruled out anyway for you to ask him. Try sending signals that you want him to ask you.
2007-03-06 23:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike up a conversation with him, and when you see a moment, pull him aside and ask him. DOn't have someon else do it. That can be awkward.
2007-03-06 23:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a movie that came out last weekend. tell him you heard it was really good, and that you'd like to see it. And see if he wants to see it too. TAH DAH, game over you win
2007-03-06 23:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋