has anyone who is really educated dated or married someone who isnt at all? if so was there any problems in getting along?
2007-03-06 22:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to start I will tell you that it really depends on the person. I will use my personal experience with out any shame. I came from Mexico when I was really young illegally, this caused me not to have a very good education, I meet this girl US citizen and started a relationship. She was in collage at that time. Time pass by and I was able to fix my legal Status is the states(by my own no because I married a US citizen.) Once I fix my legal status I went to collage, and got me some education. I did not finish collage but I got this opportunity w/ this big company. I started as customer service rep. 3 years later I'm Manager assistant. I will tell you that the personal relation that I have with who now is my wife helped my a lot. At the beginning she had the knowledge that I didn't had. And she helped me a lot she always stood by me. There will be problems for sure, but if you both have the desire to make it together you will do it. At this phase in my life I'm going to collage to improve my Inglis skills, that as you can tell I still need a lot to learn. My best advise is to really look into this person and see if has high hopes in life and most important that he is not only a dreamer but that he is one of those people that make things happen.
2007-03-06 22:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by gasparin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMHO it's a rule of balance. Education seeks excitement, Shy seek the outgoing, Poor seek the rich, and the mundane seek the extraordinary. Basically if you found someone just like yourself the relationship would be GREAT for approximately 3months till you find yourself hating everything good about yourself. Thats also why people dont tend to work with people they date (unless they run their own business). To much of the same leads to problems. enjoy the diffrences, but you both must recognize who's in charge of what. If you have 5 degree's and work at some lawfirm, and he's got a GED and works in a factory, keep in mind that you both must treat each other as equals.
2007-03-07 06:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in college but my bf never had any desire to do so.. when i first started i was like we have nothing in common ect anymore truth was my head was up my a s s and i thought that i was 'better' than him cause i was educated.. the truth was i new about acedemic stuff but he has a whole other form of intelligencce he is streetwise know about his current affairs ect.. in more ways we ballence each other out because i know more about what he does and vice versa.. so were constantly learning new things from one another.. your not given the poor guy a chance are you. try include him in your educted life ect.. i tell my guy all about what ive been up to in college and now he feels included oh and just so you know the guy though was just going to be a loser is an accountant and is being premoted shortly to senior accountan of his comanpy.. he worked hard enough and got it.. put a bit of drive in your man and stop making him feel inferior to you!!
2007-03-07 06:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pepsi cola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on both sides of this issue. I am not a college graduate but I am very intelligent. I was married to a woman who just wasn't as smart as I was and sometimes it pissed her off because it seemed like I was a walking encyclopedia of knowledge. We divorced (not for that reason). Then I was seeing a girl who had a degree and it was a little intimidating because she kept pushing for me to go back to school and make something of myself even though I felt like I was okay with my career and my situation in life.
2007-03-07 06:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear some people educated and don't know how to talk to the people, but some are not educated and they have way to talk to people and be sussed...
don't care if he is educated or not, care if he educated from experience from his life... it's better for u..
i dated one don't have degree but i don't care, i care for personal himself if i can stay and live with him or not.. and he have better job for one he is educated...
so the matter of educated or not is how he know about life or about books and stuff maybe increase the knowledge but the knowledge of life is better.
2007-03-07 06:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to marry some one needs not to be educated one must knw the measure of love they had for each other
2007-03-07 06:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't be a problem for 2 people who love each other
2007-03-07 06:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what your looking for in a relationship. For me i need to have an intellectual conversation so it didn't work out but if it's not the lack of intellectual conversation then why can't it work
2007-03-07 06:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
education is just a tool for succesful marriage
And basic love and caring and understanding and adjusting mutuall and TRUST in God, you need ,to lead a succesful life
2007-03-07 06:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope... married to a well educated and very intelligent woman...
2007-03-07 06:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋