I've met this girl through my mate a few times. Everytime I see her, she seems very happy to see me, buys me a drink and we get on very well.
On our last group night out, she kept trying to get me to dance near her, grabbing my hand whenever she had an opportunity and also kept trying to take photo's of me (alone). Her boyfriend was out that night and he kept giving me 'dirty' looks whenever she spoke to me. He sometimes went up to her when she was dancing nxt to me - think he was trying to tell me something!!!
I didn't try anything that evening, wouldn't even think about it! I asked for her number towards the end of the night-she said she has a boyfriend(which I knew).I said it don't matter,I'm only asking for your number.She then just typed it in ASAP after that!
Does she possibly fancy me??? Why she give her number to me if she has a BF???
p.s. I only asked for the number to see if she'll give it to me....
I've txt her, she replied asking how I am,what I'm upto etc
2007-03-06 21:54:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I reply bck?If I ask her if she'd meet up, would she?
2007-03-06 21:55:21 · update #1
i think shes into you!!! but why do it in front of her bf is the question. she certainly sees something in you that she doesnt her bf! just ask her if she wants to be more than a friend or dance partner for that sake, if she wants you, she'll tell her bf asap. so its all up to her, but do you see a future for the two of you's??? only you can make the choice because you'll be the one with her!!!
whatever you do, good luck
2007-03-06 22:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by *grid_iron gurl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, when a woman flirts with you, there could be thousands of possible motives, only one of which is that they are interested in you. Some of the common ones:
- attention whore
- trying to make her boyfriend jealous
- likes to see guys fight
- wants free drinks/dinner (probably not since she bought you drinks)
It's up to the guy to figure out what her game is. Not an easy job, but you don't have a choice.
Assuming she does want you. Then you have to consider this... Is her boyfriend your friend? Does he have violent tendencies? If the answer is no and no, then move forward with it and bang her, but don't date her, she's trouble. If you break up her relationship you're doing her boyfriend a favor (although he'll hate you for it).
2007-03-06 22:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO stay away! She is a two timing player and 'should' you get into a relationship with her, could you trust that she wouldn't do the same to you??
Delete her number and get out and find yourself a single girl.
2007-03-06 21:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes reply back and ask to meet up. If she wants to she will say yes, if she doesnt she will say no. But at least you will know one way or the other and you can then get on with your life. Instead of thinking "what if what if".
Good luck.
2007-03-06 21:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rich T 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this the kind of person you'd want to hook up with?
If she treats her current boyfriend like this, how do you think she's going to treat you?
She's playing you. Don't be played, you will get hurt. She has nothing to lose.
2007-03-06 22:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well give it a go do you want to go out with her or just something casual if she cheats on her boyfriend its possible she might do the same to you
2007-03-06 22:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by phillippa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants more but is afraid of what her boyfriend will say/do... Or maybe she was just trying to make him jealous...
She could have been trying to just make friends.
2007-03-06 21:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a diificult one and there are a couple of possiblilites, she may like you and want to finish with her boyfriend, she may just like the 'chase' and the attention or she may like trouble and is trying to give her boyfriend reason to start some.
2007-03-06 21:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Careful - sounds as though your playing with fire.
Yes i do think she likes you, maybe its because shes missing that spark in her current relationship so shes looking elsewhere?
2007-03-06 21:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by dancing darlings 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl has a boyfriend so stay away. Nothing else matters - just stay away!
2007-03-06 21:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋