Advice regarding my ex?

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I just checked my email; this is what was in it from her:

"you know, i'm being really nice to you. all i want to do is talk. i'm not doing anything to you, i'm not asking anything of you. why cant you be decent enough to just pick up the phone? do you feel that you are better than me? i feel that you are being childish, i just want to talk. yes, i hurt you. but life is tough, full of obstacles, let downs, and broken hearts. it isn't all about you. i actually thought you genuinely cared as i do. you blocked me from aim, you blocked me from myspace...i really wanted to but if you are goin to act like this, then i'm glad i quit talking to you a while back. it shows that you still are immature and stubborn. you told me before that you could change but i dont see that happening. if you change your mind, you can call. otherwise, good luck in life"

lol.
you add me as a friend 100 times last year and then delete me the next or few days later. then you add me out of the blue recently and i actually accept. then you delete me randomly the nest day. and you wonder why i block you.
and on aim... jason tells me last december, oh she said she wanted to talk to you, so i Im you. "so i hear you wanted to talk to me" ... "what? i never said that. jason told u that? i'm gonna kill him. leave me alone." so i blocked you and didn't look back. i even sent you a nice voicemail to say goodbye for good.
i also blocked jessica last january because she im'ed me and we talked for like 20 but then i blocked her. dunno if you put her up to that, or she just thinks i'm cool, or she kknew it'd piss you off. hmm beats me.
see it all has to be on your terms. you think everyone who knows you're emailing and everyone is saying that you're using me for go-to guy advice are wrong? i was nice first time you emailed me again this month. said "sure go ahead and

ask in an email" but you couldn't accept that. it had to be on the phone. and even if i wanted it to be on the phone, i'm not gonna pick up when i have long dist charges and no free-minutes during that time.
you're even worse than dennis. at least i deserved being screwed over by him. i was a crappy friend at the end bc i was dealing with you. but at least it just stays away and doesnt email me just bc he wants to talk. its the same thing with andy. you wanna ask me something about if you should move in with this new guy or not. or something to do with that.
you ***** me out last december, do everything you can to get me to stop calling for four months prior to that, do everything you can to screw me over four months prior to that, and then email me three months later and act like you're the nice one and like you have the right to just ask me for advice on your terms.

you wanna know the truth? it's NOT you. i dont wanna talk to dennis either. and i dont. i have new friends now, who appreciate me, who are actually real friends. i have a new life, new job, new everything. i just dont want anything from last yr in this new life, especially not you or dennis, no matter how small it is. and like i might've said before...you, dennis, last yr, it all seems like a million yrs ago now. i was done with all of that a long time ago. you and dennis should really hook up bc you're both filled with drama...and it all happened around the same time too...weird. haha.
anyway, look, i'm happy, ok. and i didnt respond last month bc whenever i started talking to you again you put me in a bad mood and changed me and i hated that. i didnt like who i became around you. it wasnt me. and well, at least we're mutual. you say "i'm glad i quit talking to u awhile back", well i feel the exact same way sso, woohoo.
lol, look, this back and forth, it got old awhile ago, and i dont

play these back n forth games anymore.
end of last yr, i just wanted my old life back, before you. and it finally happened. i know who i am...and it's certainly not childish, etc...i'm happy, i laugh, i joke, new friends, hang out, forgot all about you, and it feels great.
you're all about mind games. make the person feel guilty, like their childish etc, for not replying to an email by someone who bitchen them out and screwed them over. most guys wouldnt even reply. and everyone thinks im crazy for even doing so. honestly, it doesnt even feel like you ever existed. like i finally genuinely feel as happy as i did before you, and i love it. i just wish i would've left it at you dont feel the same way...and never called you with amanda. bc then i wouldve gotten over it and found someone else. and then i never wouldve lost dennis bc i wouldve been there for him more like i shouldve been and like he deserved. see i focused on the wrong person last yr and didnt so much on the people who

cared about me...dennis, roger, rachel, my family, etc. i cant change it, but i sure as hell wish i could.
see is it so hard to talk in email? its how we started out anyway, ahaha. look, i dont know what to say. when i move on, i move on completely and dont look back to be friends or a go-to guy. in a way, i dont regret you bc i now know what i want and what i dont want in someone...but at the same time, gosh, i just lost dennis and a year's time bc of you, so it's hard not to.
i mean before i met or, or at least while i just talked to you online, i was working, in college, knew a bunch of people, had a few close friends...hung out with roger everyday, had soo much fun, not a care in the world...or very few at least. i go out with you and slowly that disappears. and then we breakup...i return to school again full time...and roger's in utah, dennis is married with kids and a wife and no time for me, and everything in my "old world" changed from a 1.5 yrs prior

and its like i had to start over. move on from dennis roger and my life back then. and that's what i did this yr...and i'm glad i did. bc it may not be hanging with roger and dennis all the time, but its still now having genuine friend...new and some old, like jen, who genuinely care. and it's now new kind of fun. new people. new girls. etc. it's different which is what life is all about.
life is too short to talk to the people who have hurt u, try to use you, dont apreciate you...dennis, you....and it's also too short for this. this back n forth you try to do with me every so often, which just doesnt work anymore. so bc i didnt reply to you that means i think life is all about me? hahaha. nah. it's about the people who care about you and who show theyre genuinely around to do u good and life you and are your friends...and i'm there for those people. but you, dennis dont qualify as that.

that was my reply back to her

Answer 1

okay, this is way too long so i only read a few parts but i know what you need to do.
IGNORE HER.
she is using you because she misses being intimate, etc.
whatever. she is being mean and using words to make you feel bad and guilty. from what i've read, she doesn't truly like you. she just misses the things you do together. please, you deserve much better. ignore her. she is not worth your time. you guys are emailing so much and it's not getting anywhere.