My boyfriend and i were going out and i found out he was cheating on me so i dumped him .he is good friends with my cousin and she says he has changed but im not sure whether or not to believe her.
2007-03-06 21:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by babycakes_cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for him that he changed. Then he could be better for the next girl that comes along. He's probably just asking your cousin to tell you that he changed. Why else would she tell you.
Even if he did change. Who cares. He f*cked up hard. For me cheating is unforgiveable. If it isn't to you though, do whatever you want. There are plenty of guys out there. A lot that are smarter, funnier, and better looking than this chump anyway. Unless you think you can't do better.
Damn, even then... I'd rather be single.
2007-03-06 21:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe her...and don't believe him. He may well have changed by he has done his dash with you. He can show his 'changed self' to someone else. You did the right thing by dumping him...don't let him take your self respect. You will find someone sooo much better that you won't have to doubt whether he is lying to you all of the time.
2007-03-06 21:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at this 1 carefully - she could be a mediator, in that he wants u back and is going thru ur cousin to let u no he IS changed. Although she could be wrong, she didnt go out wit him and he didnt cheat on her.
Best advice, go with ur gut but dont burn bridges, try to talk to him to see whats in his head and u and ur cousin are blood, nothing breaks that!
good luck
2007-03-06 21:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Che 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an amazing thing about people and that is you can tell their character from their actions. Because he took the action of cheating on you, you can tell that he is a pretty shady character. And that is who he IS and odds are that he hasn't changed on that deep of a level.
2007-03-07 01:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jared G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your cousin in the picture? It is your boyfriend who should be approaching you and not your cousin. Unless he's remorseful otherwise move on with your life. Drop him.
2007-03-06 21:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you can't ever believe another person about something like this. you never truly know if he has changed or not until you actually date him again. just because she says so, doesn't mean it's true. she may THINK so but it may not be true. but it all depends on if you are willing to forgive your exbf and give him another chance.
2007-03-06 21:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin probably thinks he changed, but so what? I don't think you will ever trust him again. And why should you?
2007-03-06 21:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by vbaileyfilms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO. GIVE IT SOME TIME. MEN DON'T CHANGE THAT FAST- MY GUY FRIEND STILL IS A SLOB, IS LAZY AND MY GF WON'T PICK UP AFTER HERSELF FOR THE PAST 10 YRS! NO, LET HIM STARVE AND IF HE WANTS YOU BACK, HELL PROVE IT, HE'S CHANGED.
2007-03-06 21:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, don't let him back in your life. Concentrate your attention on others and leave him in the past where he belongs.
2007-03-06 21:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If you do something than the chance of doing it again is 99.9%.
Have little self respect and forget him.
2007-03-06 21:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋