I met this guy a few months ago, and I'm not sure if he is intersted in me or not, how do I find out what his intentions are? I need your answers please.
2007-03-06 21:31:02 · 12 answers · asked by haime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun, you can't MAKE someone fall in love with you. it's just not possible. love develops over time. there's no special magic that will make someone immediately love you.
if you're not sure if he's interested in you or not, the best way is to talk. be friendly, and try being friends first. if you two seem to get along well, you can try subtle flirting. if he flirts back, there's a good chance he's interested. remember, love takes time.
2007-03-06 21:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do nothing to make somebody fall in love with you. What I mean is that if you put an extra effort into making someone like you, he might like you not for what you normally are but for how you make him feel - extra loved, pampered and appreciated. Once you set up that pace, you have to keep it because once your guard is off and you start being yourself, the guy may find out that he doesn't really like you anymore. So just to be sure that he really likes you for what you are, always be yourself.
If you are not sure if this guy is interested in you or not, probably it's not clear to him eather. We, women, can pick even the smallest signals of someone being interested in us so maybe he just doesn't know yet. Give him some more time, try to get to know him more and to decide for yourself if really like him too.
2007-03-06 21:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but if it's been months and you don't know then he's not into you AT ALL. a guy that really likes a girl and wants to be more than friends is not very subtle....(i.e. it would be clear if not within the first 5 minutes then at least by the second time you see eachother.
2007-03-06 21:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by 98nil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen naturally. If there is too much pressure they get spooked and run for the hills. Let him tell you in his own time. You will just have to trust that if he wasn't into you then he wouldn't be seeing you.
2007-03-06 21:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self and try to be alone with him not always in a crowd so if he is shy he can have a private moment to say whats on his mind
2007-03-06 21:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" someone fall in love with you. Even if you could I wouldn't want to. I'd want them to love me because they fell in love with me because of who I am, not something I did.
2007-03-06 21:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be he has another gf yes may beother wise 100% he would have fallen in love with u
and fyi love and frnship is different
its very easy to prnounce this word "love" but after u fall in love u have to prove and its vvv difficult
so make friend and know him nearly wat kinda he is
2007-03-06 21:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by desert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i say that don't break any dil .this is only interaction between tow person if you think that is love .this is only happen in film
2007-03-06 21:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by ajay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and watch..
Lets c how things fall in place...
2007-03-06 21:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by sunlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make some one love you. i was stupid enough to try it .... it happens through time if it was meant to be.
2007-03-06 21:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋