2007-03-06 21:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by ybro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's because you really love her. you don't care if she doesn't like you back. you just love her. i'm sorry you're in this situation. it's one of the toughest. but i'm sure if you really love her, you would wish for her happiness, even if she doesn't choose to be with you. you seem like a really nice guy. i think it's best to move on and find another girl who will like you back the same way you do.
2007-03-06 21:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have invested time and emotion into this person and you had hopes and dreams for the future. If you still together show her you love her but don’t over do it cause she’ll feel suffocated and you will just push her further away. Give her hugs and kisses, send her random texts occasionally just to let her know you miss her and are thinking of her. If she has an exam or something that she’s worried about leave a not of encouragement to let her know that you support her. Take her to do her favourite thing wether its going to see a film or horse riding, and share the experience. Take pictures and make her a copy so she always remembers the good times. Write her a letter, in situation like this I find this the best thing as it can be so hard to look at that person and really tell them what’s in your heart, but this way she will still know.
If you have split up I’m sorry. I no you probably don’t want to hear this but it’s very true; its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Think of all the good times and the ways she made your life better and then think what your would have missed if you never were together. Just be grateful for the time you did have with her and if you truly love her let her spread her wings and do what makes her happy. I know this is hard cause no matter how much you want that person to be happy you always wish that they feel that way with you but you have to let her go cause otherwise you jeopardising all the history and memories you share, so when she looks back she will only remember the bad things. Plus by parting on a good note you leaving the door open for a possible reconciliation in the future. If you are ment to be you will find your way back to each other.
In the meanwhile try to keep busy, reconnect with old friends and engage in work/hobbies…whatever you enjoy so that you don’t get consumed with thoughts of her.
Stay strong and grow from your experience.
2007-03-06 21:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard for you to let go, because you love her and you don't want to see her wiht ano ther man. If you really love her then prove to her that you love her, if you can't do that then you just have to move on. No matter what she will always have a place in your heart, and you will feel it in a few years/ next time you guys bump heads again. Its very painful to lose someone you love, but thats life.
2007-03-06 21:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by angelsentfrmabve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love by nature (especially love for a person from the oppposite sex) is a possessive feeling. You want to possess the person you love and to be possessed by her/him. That's why when this feeling is reciprocal, it gives so much pleasure to both partners - they enjoy being part of each other and belonging to each other. When you don't get a response from the other side, it doesn't make love less possessive. But the faster you accept the fact that the girl doesn't love you, the faster you will be set free of that painful feeling of loss. The worst experience I had was to pine over a man who didn't love me for 3 long and painful years. The fastest was 2 days. That's progress, isn't it?!
2007-03-06 21:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ybro, Why, because you truely love her and have given your heart and soul to her.It's very hard to love someone this much and they don't even see you.But you much go on. It will take you a very long time to move on with your life. But you will in time and find a very nice girl who will return your love and only see you.Take your time and move on when you are ready to do so. Everything will be alright for you.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-06 21:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love her. Soon that will turn to anger though. Its hard having your heart stomped on and there is only so much you can take. I suggest you leave her be and try to get on with your own life...and when the right girl comes along you won't even think about the other one. Good luck. :)
2007-03-06 21:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u loved her man, its as simple as that. Now, u should be asking why, u should be asking what... and what u should be doing right now is one of two things: steal the bit*h back, or move on and get another one.. u may just find that this new girl is just as sweet u never know man until u try... thats the problem with most guys who get broken hearted, they focus to much on that other girl rather than recognizing the qualities of other new, potential gf's.. trust me, this has happened to virtually everyone, its not that bad...
2007-03-06 21:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the same situation as me and my friend mitchell i loved him but he didnt love m and now i love someone else and he might be in love with me! Just do this, Go to this girl and talk to her stay calm and just let it out let he know how u feel about her! trust me i am a girl and i would highly appreciate that! hope i helped, Amy
2016-03-16 06:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in your inner psyche, you wish she was yours... It's a painful thing, like seeing your house burning, because you know at that moment that you'll probably never have a chance to live in it again.
2007-03-06 21:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is natural,even animals are feeling the same.i suffered much because of this kinds of feelings, still i suffer but i think we should try to be logic and strong cause we can't be happy by owning anything by force,this is life ...
2007-03-06 21:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by sh b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋