I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week and did not have a chance to call her, i called her at the end of the week but no answer.
whats the deal with her?
2007-03-06 21:24:40 · 15 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not interested - if she was she would have made an effort to phone you back.
Maybe she's going through something and the fact that someone is interested in her freaks her out a bit. Leave it, when she's ready (and/or has a chance), she'll contact you.
Don't seem desperate - it'll scare her off.
2007-03-06 21:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone tag sucks lol.
Just try to call her again and set up a lunch date (they're far more casual than dinner dates!). Maybe she was having a bad day at the time, but there's no way to know for sure that maybe you just caught her at a bad time. Some people will answer their phone at any given time, even when they shouldn't. Perhaps you called at a time where she did the right thing and did not answer. Like I said, try calling her again. Whatever you do, don't harp on her about not answering, it'll only make you seem too aggressive over petty events.
I wish you the very best!
2007-03-07 05:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really interested, you would have found time to call the next day. That's what she's thinking. Maybe she really was having a bad or just really busy day. I say give it a few more days, then try again. Explain that you must have been zigging when the other was zagging. If you get the no answer brushoff again after that, forget it.
2007-03-07 05:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lorelei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldnt have jumped to the conclusion that she was ignoring you. She may have been unable to answer your call the second time. And she may have not called you back yet because shes busy. I say call her in a few days and if you dont hear from her, give it up, shes blowing you off most likely.
2007-03-07 05:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you originally jumped to conclusions too fast that first day when she wasn't able to answer. Then once you didn't call the next day it set the whole chase into effect. Try calling again, leave a message and just say that you would really like to hang out sometime, and if she'd like to get to know you more then she should call you back, leave your number. If she doesn't call she doesn't want to get to know you, if she does good.
2007-03-07 05:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by 98nil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's stringing you. She is amused with the fact that she has some attention, but cant be bothered to bring it any further. Move on matey, and if she wants she will get in touch. She has your number now.
At the wedding it was different, but being back in the usual routine you could be getting in the way. a multitude of things innit? For your own sake move on...
2007-03-07 05:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by ShobeeDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how some guys ask for a girls number and never ring. Well she probably thinks your one of those sleezy guys that ditch girls. I suggest you call her again and appologise and explain you were busy. Just dont beat about the bush, be straight forward.
2007-03-07 05:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her back and ask her if she would like you to call her, and what would be the best time to call.
2007-03-07 05:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she expected you to call her the next day, but you didn't, so she got upset and thought you weren't as interested in her as you really are. this is what all girls think. we tend to think you forgot about us. she probably didn't answer you because it took you too long to call her. if you really like her, you should keep calling. that'll tell her that you're interested in her and that you really want to talk to her.
2007-03-07 05:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. She invited you to keep the communication lines open, something she didn't have to do if she didn't want to - it's just a matter of the two of you being out of sync. If you dig her, MAKE it happen!
2007-03-07 05:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋