Ahh, absence makes the heart grow fonder...are you sure that you want to be with this fella? Why did he break up with you in the first place?
I don't really think, honestly that he wants to take you back...guys have done this to me...they were" hoping",that I had gotten over them!! I wish that they could have just not bothered to rub it in, even further..by their stupid phone calls!!
I think that yours just wanted to make sure that you are "over him" already...so that he won't feel too guilty..and that he's made the right decision to move on with another person!
(Some ex-'s are pretty darn sneaky....and I do know some! Just when I thought that they had missed me...HAH! yeah right...uhh, no! they had another lady, nearby..and never bothered to let me in on that little secret! I was so naive about that..,once upon a time!)
YOu need to just move forward...because there are a lot of guys that YOU haven't gotten a chance to meet or get to know!!!
He needs to leave you alone, now...it's your life...separate from his!!! Don't feel sorry for him...not in the slightest...he dumped you...and now he's texting to check on you? Hello!!!
I don't think so!!! He's NOT responsible for your feelings!!!
You are!!
And, How come he couldn't break up with you in person? HUH?!!! Whazzz up with this???
YOu really need to think about why he broke it off with you...and how it truly made you feel...(over the internet...rude!!!) If he was really the love of your life...why didn't he tell you in person...ya know? THere is something I think that he sure isn't telling you!!!
Good luck...and You Go Girl!!!
2007-03-06 21:33:40
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answered by ladyk 2
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Honestly he was playing a game. To see how much you really cared. The fact you never talked to him or tried to was "good" and "bad". You probably hurt his feelings, but you also made him realize you wouldn't always be their, or wouldn't get walked over. Yea he still thinks about you, but since the ball is in your court, make sure you play offencively. Use the fact he's chasing you, to make sure you dont have these problems again. It's manipulative, but honestly thats what a relationship is. 2 people manipulating each other till they both give in, it sounds nasty but thats what happens. Why else would everyone be so diffrent after being with a person for long periods of time.
2007-03-06 21:26:24
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answered by Kyle E 2
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Hi Brydie, I do think that this means he is thinking about you. Hoiwever the problem is what is he thinking about, being with you as a person, or just as someone to be with and have sex with. It is so hard when you break up with someone and I think everyone has had the same questions you are asking going through their minds. I think it is better when you try to move on, don'T contact him and see if you can meet someone else. Anyone who will break up with you and then text you one month later is looking for an emotional rollercoaster.. I wish you much luck and I hope you can manage to think of other things and move on. All the best - Good luck xx
2007-03-06 21:24:35
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answered by Leeza 3
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you need to find out what he's up to. coz in my opinion, it's not going to be something good.
first, he broke up with you via EMAIL? that's nowhere near being serious and sincere right?
and after 5 weeks of mia-ing, he suddenly showed up and started texting you. how was his tone like? was he suggesting of anything or hinting of patching up? if he was, then please think twice. you need to know what he has been doing for the past 5 weeks. do not let your heart rule over your head this time round... well, some guys just cant be trusted.
2007-03-06 22:32:05
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answered by Anonymous
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If he texts you, he's obviously thinking about you.
Question is, what was he doing during those 5 weeks? Was he with other women? If this is the case, maybe he just wants you for quick sex and be done with you again. So figure out what his intentions are before working things out again.
2007-03-06 21:21:54
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answered by HaLF_BaKeD123 3
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Yes he is still thinking about you. But did you ever ask him or tried to find out why he broke with you? Otherwise this whole situation seems so confusing!!!
Clear this situation and talk to him openly, there is no sense in suffering any mental setbacks.
2007-03-06 21:25:52
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answered by AB2874 3
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Wait a pair of weeks and if he nevertheless hasn't asked you out, go get him tiger!!! Do you notice one yet another on a each and on a daily basis or weekly foundation? additionally, are you able to pal be depended on with the affairs of the middle? i'm asking this considering the fact which you'll be able to desire to ensure that your pal isn't making issues up, understand what I advise? sturdy success with that & shop me published!
2016-09-30 08:01:10
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answered by ? 4
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I think he does still love and think about you, but you should be careful if he did it again he will do it one more time. You should have some self respect and leave him but if you think that you can be again together and nothing will happen than go ahead.
Good Luck
2007-03-06 21:34:51
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answered by Anonymous
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If he broke up with you then you shouldn't have anything to do with him ever again. Make him rue the day.
2007-03-06 21:22:22
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answered by Cybeq 5
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he's apparently stiking out chasing with others and runnin back to you...it's all on you to be his fall back girl, or forget about him and move on, he left ya once he'll break your heart again..I'm a guy who learned the hard way...I was that guy
2007-03-06 21:27:39
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answered by BrownPuPPy_eyes 3
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