How do you cope when your partner is completely neurotic???

Question

My boyf is neurotic and he is driving me nuts too. This is no joke anymore. He goes to A+E with the slightest of bumps thinking he has cancer, he had flakes on his scalp and he presented to A+E thinking he had scalp cancer, he had dandruf! He is very sensitive to voice tones and if he thinks people dont sound happy when he calls them, he gets very upset and panicky thinking they dont like him. He is obsessive about certain things such as always having to have diet coke around him, he drinks 5 litres a day! When he has bad dreams he is troubled by them all day and heaven help if they are about me ! he is getting worse, any advice? I know this sounds cuckoo, he is an artist and I think that explains some of it

Answer 1

Do his symptoms coincide with the symptoms of the Homeopathic remedy given below ?
If so ,give him the Homeopathic remedy in 30 potency and will start gettting better day by day,without any side effects or complications, the dosage is three times a day half hour before or after meals :-

STAPHYSAGRIA
Stavesacre

Nervous affections with marked irritability, diseases of the genito-urinary tract and skin, most frequently give symptoms calling for this drug. Acts on teeth and alveolar periosteum. Ill effects of anger and insults. Sexual sins and excesses. Very sensitive. Lacerated tissues. Pain and nervousness after extraction of teeth. Sphincters lacerated or stretched.

Mind.--Impetuous, violent outbursts of passion, hypochondriacal, sad. Very sensitive as to what others say about her. Dwells on sexual matters; prefers solitude. Peevish. Child cries for many things, and refuses them when offered.

Head.--Stupefying headache; passes off with yawning. Brain feels squeezed. Sensation of a ball of lead in forehead. Itching eruption above and behind ears (Oleand).

Eyes.--Heat in eyeballs, dims spectacles. Recurrent styes. Chalazæ (Platanus). Eyes sunken, with blue rings. Margin of lids itch. Affections of angles of eye, particularly the inner. Lacerated or incised wounds of cornea. Bursting pain in eyeballs of syphilitic iritis.

Throat.--Stitches flying to the ear on swallowing, especially left.

Mouth.--Toothache during menses. Teeth black and crumbling. Salivation, spongy gums, bleed easily (Merc; Kreos). Submaxillary glands swollen. After eating feels sleepy pyorrhea (Plantago)

Stomach.--Flabby and weak. Desire for stimulants. Stomach feels relaxed. Craving for tobacco. Canine hunger, even when stomach is full. Nausea after abdominal operations.

Abdomen.--Colic after anger. Hot flatus. Swollen abdomen in children, with much flatus. Colic, with pelvic tenesmus. Severe pain following an abdominal operation. Incarcerated flatus. Diarrhœa after drinking cold water, with tenesmus. Constipation (2 drops tincture night and morning), hæmorrhoids, with enlarged prostate.

Male.--Especially after self-abuse; persistent dwelling on sexual subjects. Spermatorrhœa, with sunken features; guilty look; emissions, with backache and weakness and sexual neurasthenia. Dyspnœa after coition.

Female.--Parts very sensitive, worse sitting down (Berb; Kreos). Irritable bladder in young married women. Leucorrhœa. Prolapsus, with sinking in the abdomen; aching around the hips.

Urinary.--Cystocele (locally and internally). Cystitis in lying-in patients. Ineffectual urging to urinate in newly married women. Pressure upon bladder; feels as if it did not empty. Sensation as if a drop of urine were rolling continuously along the channel. Burning in urethra during micturition. Prostatic troubles; frequent urination, burning in urethra when not urinating (Thuja; Sabal; Ferr pic). Urging and pain after urinating. Pain after lithotomy.

Skin.--Eczema of head, ears, face, and body; thick scabs, dry, and itch violently; scratching changes location of itching. Fig-warts pedunculated (Thuja). Arthritic nodes. Inflammation of phalanges. Night-sweats.

Extremities.--Muscles, especially of calves, feel bruised. Backache; worse in morning before rising. Extremities feel beaten and painful. Joints stiff. Crural neuralgia. Dull aching of nates extending to hip-joint and small of back.

Modalities.--Worse, anger, indignation, grief, mortification, loss of fluids, onanism, sexual excesses, tobacco; least touch on affected parts. Better, after breakfast, warmth, rest at night.

Relationship.--Inimical: Ranunc bulb.

Complementary: Caust; Colocy.

Compare: Ferrum pyrophos (tarsal cysts); Colocy; Caust; Ign; Phos ac; Calad.

Antidote: Camph.

Dose.--Third to thirtieth potency.
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I hope the information is of help to you.
Take Care and God Bless You !

Answer 2

Honestly, I think it all comes down to how serious you are about him. Where would you like to see your relationship in another five years? Does your adoration of him outweigh your annoyance at his idiosyncracies? What if his behaviors never change?

I think you need to think about these and similar questions, because in the long run, perhaps you might both be better off with other people. You with someone a little less eccentric, and him with someone a little less maddened by his eccentricities. I am in no way trying to come across as overly judgemental, but I just think you need to know where things stand, as there is a possibility he will never change these things.

Answer 3

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How do you cope when your partner is completely neurotic???
My boyf is neurotic and he is driving me nuts too. This is no joke anymore. He goes to A+E with the slightest of bumps thinking he has cancer, he had flakes on his scalp and he presented to A+E thinking he had scalp cancer, he had dandruf! He is very sensitive to voice tones and if he thinks people...

Answer 4

Im an Artist and I have schizophrenia.I think he may have ocd though he is compulsive sounding.All that diet coke probly rots his brains,Just love him and encourage him to see a doctor if he was on meds he would probly be fine.Its not him or his fault its simple brain chemistry.