Think about all those romance films we watch. There are points in each movie where we feel that the characters "love" each other. We pay attention to how they look in one another's eyes, the way they kiss, the tears they shed when confessing their love, etc. And yet, all of these so-called "signs" are really just the handiwork of a couple of good actors, who in real life, probably dont have stable relationships.
What's my POINT???
What I'm asking is that if love can be so easily displayed on screen, Dont you think it's also possible for it to be "displayed" in real life ,by real people, but not truly felt?
2007-03-06 20:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha Yes it is possible. Not only possible, but it happens ALL the time. Probably half or more of the relationships out there are cases of it. People going through the motions when there is nothing there. In many if not most of such cases to be fair there WAS something there to start with, but people cling to the past. People don't like change, and people tend to do what is expected of them whether they realize it or not...
2007-03-06 20:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A movie you see is just for couple of hours, in which the intention to to let the audience that the actors in those characters are in love. while doing so the makers had to compress real factors of true love in just some portions of the film.so it is very much exaggerated. however true love relay exists,which does not have too many dramatics and also with likes and dislikes of the pair concerned.It is certain that in early period of love ,there may be some slight imitations as those are in movies,that too because of the influences created by movies.for example of true love in reality, my grand parents were loving each other so much.they; did everything that other required, without speaking to each other.i have never seen them sitting even closely.they went to the extent of crying when other was not feeling well.they used to go out ,while so, keeping lenghthy gap of distance between them.i have never seen my grandpa touching my grandma.when my passed away suddenly during one night, my grandma wept ,but never overacted it.she kissed her husband countless from tip to toe,and was saying "how could I live without my dear man " and looking all people around she just said" i am going with him.I cant stay here" and she just dropped dead. now, you could understand which is true love,and what is shown in the movies.feeling is more than which is shown in movie, exists, but kissing ,eye to eye and all pure cinematic.
2007-03-07 04:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by dpkdrj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooo, great question..
Yes, it's very possible for some people to display love and not truly feel it..my opinion is that people have different ways of showing love, to know if it really is love you have to really know the person confession or showing it (in their own strange ways).
Personally the lovey dovey happy ending movies/shows sometimes irritate the living daylights out of me, especially when they never fight or have disagreements - that's unrealistic.
2007-03-07 04:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure at one point and time in our life we my have felt like we was in that much love with some one. but you know i with you is it really like that. it really a yes and no answer, it only like that for just a lilttle bit i dont thing you can be like that always with one person. all the time. if people want you to thing that it a act. this is the real life.
2007-03-07 04:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think love can and does exist, but because of the way movies portray love, it sets the standard for how we must express our love a bit high. i'm sure that many people feel love towards others, but just because they don't show it in the same way as say brad pitt might, doesn't mean that it isn't there and very real.
2007-03-07 04:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by dragonrayne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that movies are abit too dramatic for the real world. So with regards to your question, I think maybe you can find such love. It really depends alot on the individual.
2007-03-07 04:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the movies they have several takes, mood music and only have to appear that way for a short period of time. I think that it does really exist as I don't think we could all be acting all the time.
2007-03-07 04:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because on the screen it's for maybe an hour in real life its forever, and may seem that way in a very short time.
2007-03-07 04:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't we all wish to have the kind of luv displayed on screen. But then thats reel life and tis is real life. Yeah i guess it's possible to display it in real life but then........... Now luv have taken back seat to greed, lust and unfaithfulness. Luv is luv. There's no blaming luv. We human are to be blamed cos it is us who give luv a bad name. Until and unless we have characters played by SRK in DDLJ, Hrithik in MDK, my darling Akshay in Dhadkan brought to real life, then reel luv is most possible in real life
2007-03-07 05:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋