How should I do it? Does it matter if other people think she is ugly, even though I don't? I am 18 by the way, but I really LOVE her. I don't think I could live if she is not with me, I would rather do a suicide.
2007-03-06 19:58:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont bother about what people think of her. It only matters about what YOU think. Looks arn't everything. Its whats on the inside that counts : Personaility, character & so on. I can tell your madly in love with her :) But you're still really young for a big commitment such as marriage.
It's one of thoes really important decisions in life that you've got to make. I'd advice you to give it afew years. In the mean time, you could build up a better relationship with her. There's so much to a person.
From my point of view, Marriages are all about
arguing & making up, give & take, accepting each other for who you are & not try to change her to be who u want her to be, lots of sacrifice, U must have seen her at her best & worst, be able to forgive her mistakes, be able to see perfection in all her inperfections.
Your spouse has to be your best friend :)
Even waiting is a kind of joy. Marriage comes will lots of responsibility. For her, aswell as yourself. Dont rush into things. Just enjoy the dating proccess. One day, you'll be ready & when the times comes, you would be left with no regrets.
2007-03-06 20:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by Shobha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all beauty comes from within, so don't care what others say.
Second, you are only 18 years old, as you both mature you both will have different outlooks on life. If you still love her when you are 22 or 23, and she still feels the same way about you then you know she is your soul mate.
As far as the word suicide, I am sure you were only trying to convey to us how much you love her. But no one is worth ending your life for ever.
2007-03-06 20:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no right answer to that question. You should definately live together for a few years first though. After that time you will know for sure if you can spend the rest of your lives together and there will be no surprises after the big day. The last note in your question concerns me a little. Just make sure that your desire to marry her is out of love for her rather than a fear of being alone.
2007-03-06 20:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all is she also in love with you? if yes then it;s ok for thinking about marriage.
You said you are 18 at this point of time, as you would already be aware that according to law, you can marry only after you will be of 21 and she will be of 18.
But my suggesstion to you is, wait unless you don;t get settled in your career. Once you feel that you are setteled in your career and will be independent you can go ahead and marry her.
2007-03-06 20:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ajeet S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds intense- I'd wait until you have a steady job, savings account, the ability to own a home/apartment or already owning one and mature (i.e not drinking because for you it's illegal, etc.) Watch an episode of Engaged and Underage on MTV and think about it
2007-03-06 20:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by actuatedtendancy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're too immature to get married. Who answers a question for someone saying "that's easy- read the book" ?? How rude. Grow up.
2007-03-07 08:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jade m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u are financially secure and can support a family, then u're ready to get married. Luv alone is not enough so study hard, work smart and secure your future.
2007-03-06 20:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
40. Before then, there's too much to see and do to waste your time, money and energy on one, single woman! Life's a party, enjoy your freedom!!!
2007-03-06 20:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well......it seems u really love her....go ahead boy...ur love's waiting for u....doesnt matter even if u're 18....
hey.....if ur parents object that ...u need to wait !!!
2007-03-06 20:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at least 24 ..when u get a stable job :) ...u will want her to be provided for rite :) ..gd luck ...
2007-03-06 20:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋