1st off I just created this alt ID cuz I'm pretty embarrassed about asking questions regarding this topic. But I need some advice from the good people here.
My fiance and I have dabbled in role play to spice it up a lil. Pretty standard stuff: Teacher/Student, Dr/Nurse, etc.
It's been good so far but I want to do something different and am worried it may turn him off.
We were watching an episode of Las Vegas(his fave show) where one of the charatcer's drinks is spiked causing her to pass out. It got me thinking that I'd be really into it if he captured me like that. Obviously not for real but pretend. But I'm nervous about telling him and don't want him to think I'm weird.
2 questions:
- How can I ease him into this? and
- Love to be able to give him some examples.on how he could capture me like they do on TV or the movies to make it easier.
Obviously this is pretend and for fun only.
Thx in advance for any help!
SJ
2007-03-06 19:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You appear to have a submissive rape fantasy, that is not at all uncommon. If he is open to D/s style roleplay already the best way is to just talk about it. It depends on your hard and soft limits (both of you). Being in the submissive role you have to depend on negotiation much more than he. The only way to negotiate a scene (roleplay event) is to talk it over.
2007-03-06 20:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand were your coming from as I had the same worries. It can be very hard telling someone you care about your fantasies in case you are rejected. To make it easier I recommend writing a letter or a story about you fantasy. Get a cheap wig, do you make-up differently from what you would normally do (don’t be scared to go OTT), buy some clothes that you think this character would wear and take a sexy photo to get him excited (as men are very visual). Or you could consider getting a dvd of a woman having submissive sex for him, write a cheeky not saying something like- I wish that was me- and slip it in his briefcase or leave it on his pillow. He should get the hint :-)
2007-03-07 08:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Tarzan... Me jane.. Come and Catche me!!..... works a treat... Have fun!
2007-03-07 03:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋