We have been going out for a little bit, and we both definitely like each other;)
She is very attractive, into her work, and used to having guys trying to get her into a relationship within five minutes of meeting her I'm sure. I want to play it cool and really do think it is too soon for anything too serious, though I think she might be hinting about it.
We have been hanging out every other week or so, partly because our schedules conflict, partly because we are taking things slow.
But I want to make myself a little more scarce and unavailable, act a little indifferent, you know? How do I do that?
2007-03-06 19:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bravo man...that's a great tactic....keep this way....
be sure to meet with this girl (DO NOT ASK HER TO MEET JUST PLAN THE WAY THAT YOU WILL BE IN THE SAME PLACE SAME TIME SO MEETING LOOKS ACCIDENT)
talk and have some time together laugh discuss etc...but never
never talk about relationships. if she starts a discussion about
relationship then BINGO! she's interested....Then you move with caution ;) Remember to talk for other things never you open a discussion about relationships and ALWAYS LEAVE FIRST!
"sorry i have to go it's 9 already! time past quick!" "that was a great evening....i laughed a lot....see you around honey" etc
DO NOT ACT LIKE YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP UNLESS SHE SHOWS A SIGN
ALWAYS LEAVE FIRST
i think you ll going to score good luck! :)
2007-03-06 19:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need it?
If you like her - use every chance to spend time with her - do nto waste your time for scaring and unavailability.
To hold your emotions and feelings under control and not to be mistaken - just keep in mind that you are doing it for her and she has a right to accaept it or not. Respect her feelings! And be wise. Good start is almost half -done work.
2007-03-06 19:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one, dont go for any last minute dates...if she calls you up one night and asks to hang out that day or even the next day...say no, you have other plans...if she asks when youre available, give her an added week or so longer thna you actually are. And dont call her for a couple days longer than usual, and dont answer her calls during that time too...just make sure not to go overboard and make her think youre not interested at all and move on. good luck
2007-03-06 19:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to play games, it's probably not worth it.
Instead of playing at being hard to get, why not find some things to keep you occupied? Have things to do, places to go, people to see. Be interesting.
2007-03-06 19:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to do that is....
if she really doesnt hint about it...talk to another gurl in front of her and try to make her jealous....your giggling and talkin with another gurl WILL affect her if she's got feelings for u !!
hope that helped :)
2007-03-06 19:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to make yourself unavailable? It will just confuse her and then she will probably dump you...which from the sounds of it is not what you want. All of this game playing crap doesn't work...it just pisses us off.
2007-03-06 19:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it to women, Saman is right!
2007-03-06 20:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell.
2007-03-06 19:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋