MY BOYFRIEND LIVES IN THE STATE AS ME BUT NOT THE SAME CITY. WE RARELY SEE EACH OTHER. JUST RECENTLY, I ASKED HIM TO MOVE IN WITH ME AND HE RESPONDED BY SAYING THAT HE DON'T HAVE FAMILY DOWN HERE ETC. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I LOVE HIM DEEPLY AND HE EXPRESSED TO ME THAT HES THE SAME FOR ME. BUT BY HIM MOVING IN WITH ME THATS THE ONLY WAY THAT I THINK THAT OUR RELATIONSIP CAN HAVE A BIG CHANCE TO LAST A LONG TIME. MY QUESTION IS BASICALLY WHAT TO DO? HES SAYING HE DON'T KNOW AND ALL, THAT HE NEEDS TIME TO THINK.SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I MOVE ON. WE ARE LIKE AN HOUR FROM EACH OTHER BUT THE ONLY THING IS THAT HE WORKS A LOT AND I GO TO SCHOOL AND WORK ALSO......WE SEE EACH OTHER EVERY CHANCES WE GET HELP I REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND HE REALLY LOVES ME.THANK YOU GOD BLESS....
2007-03-06 19:21:20 · 2 answers · asked by jay3tweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Moving in together is a bad idea, but if you really love each other, ask him about your moving to be closer to each other. Could you meet halfway? Or would you try to move to his city and see if that could work? Although, frankly, I think that maybe you'll find that if you move to his city he won't respect you as much. If seeing you becomes easy, and he doesn't have to work for it, you may not become important to him. It's a chance you can take. But I would really recommend that you not move in together before marriage: the divorce rate is higher for people who live together first.
2007-03-06 19:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way you shouldn't dump your bf. u love him and he loves u. as long as u hav love everything will work itself out. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-07 03:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋