He says he loves me and wants to marry me .... but hes wanted to marry his past two ex's.... one of which he still sees in classes and seems to talk about a fair bit. He says he doesnt have feelings for her anymore... but sometimes i wonder. Sometimes i wonder if hes with me just because he doesnt want to be alone... hes only ever had two gfs and is 23 so i dont think that is the case.
I just feel as if iam not good enough for him... what do you think i should do?
2007-03-06 19:09:42 · 8 answers · asked by paperlilly12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait a while to marry him to see if his "love" stands the test of time.
If he loves you after a year, two years, etc without being married or breaking up than he obviously does love you and you have nothing to worry about. Only time will tell.
2007-03-06 19:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk, talk and talk to him. He may not realize that you have doubts and that you somehow do not believe his words. tell him that you are afraid of your relations - you wnat some help and support from him - want more certainty!
And pay attention not to his words, but to his actions towards you - that is the info that gives you the answer. You are good enough for love and care and you deserve it! But the question is that you need to be sure about a man with whom you are together.
think of yourself and then explain him what you expect from the relationships. take some time and you will see whether he loves you or not.
2007-03-06 19:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in doubt then maybe you should call it quits! There's really no point to fuss over it. Don't you think? I don't understand why you think he's cheating or doesn't love you. Is he there for you? Does he comfort you when you're down? Has he been honest with you? or Are you jealous of his friendship with his ex? The best remedy for you is TRUST. Maybe he's questioning you about your doubts. When in doubt let him go. But when in love be honest and truthful.
2007-03-06 19:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nu2ntanet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes and expect a nice ring tell him he can make low payments on the engagement ring .The ring is yours to keep it is a commitment of his love . This separates the men from the boys .
And should make you feel better about the relationship .
You really need to love your self more .People treat you the way you allow them to .
2007-03-06 19:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop more self-esteem, so you're less caught up in what he does and what he thinks. Develop some interests of your own. It might help you to read the book, "The Rules" which will tell you a lot about how to cope with guys.
2007-03-06 19:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie...if he wants to marry you...what are you waiting for?
what's with the past stuff? start thinking about the future. If he loves you and you love him....arent you grateful that the other girls didnt follow through with him? he's yours!! have a happy life. peace
2007-03-06 19:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really just doesn't want to be alone. Sorry. If you are in love, live with it. If you're iffy, look around.
2007-03-06 19:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by james k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him, he's a casanova
2007-03-06 19:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by AESC 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋