How can a man fall in love with an average-looking girl like me, when so many beautiful women?

Question

There are so many beautiful women in the world. They are not only beautiful outside, they are also beautiful inside. They help poor people an do charitable deeds.

I do involve myself in charity too but I am nowhere as hot as them. So why would a guy choose to marry an average or below-average looking woman if there are so many beautiful women in the world who have great personalities.

I, for one, am not overweight but I know lots of women who are slightly overweight or overweight but still sexier and prettier than me. I also never had a BF so I must be below average-looking.

And below-average and average-looking women has been treated with less respect than attractive women. Men would be more gentlemen to women are beautiful.

Even in workplace, attractive women get paid more and have better chances of being employed. I once read about this.

I am nice to guys. I have guy friends. I am not easy to get.

I don't know what makes you think i go to work , then go home and sit all the day.

I have social life and I love my social life and I go out a lot and I mean A LOT. And I try to be my best when I go out. It's just that from time to time I suffer from feeling worthless and insecure because of these attractive women.

so don't jump to conclusions and say I don't go out.

have a social life and I love it and I go out a lot and I mean A LOT. I try to dress my best and be my best whenever I go out. I'm friendly with everybody. I'm over-exposed actually. I do my part in order to meet more people, be it men or women. So, I hate it when people who doesn't know anything about me make comments like "you don't do anything". GRRRR.

You know nothing about me. All you know is what I post so why comment like that. It's like telling a user in yahoo "you have curly red hair and is wearing a yellow skirt right now" when you don't even see her. LIKE HELLO!

Answer 1

dont b disheartened. every person in this world has some quality in oneself. it is just that few discover it early and few later. and do u really think charity makes a person more beautiful? i know ppl who do charity just for name and fame. this all is non-sense. it is just the heart of a person wat really matters at the end of the day which is going to b there with u for always.
I feel that u r nice person and god has kept something real nice for u. so wait for the appropriate time. and always rem..beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. so dont bother and b happy. there will b someone surely coming for u shortly. All the best.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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How can a man fall in love with an average-looking girl like me, when so many beautiful women?
There are so many beautiful women in the world. They are not only beautiful outside, they are also beautiful inside. They help poor people an do charitable deeds.

I do involve myself in charity too but I am nowhere as hot as them. So why would a guy choose to marry an average or below-average...

Answer 4

Look around you. Are only beautiful women married? No. Many men are intimidated by beautiful women and would rather be with someone who is beautiful on the inside. Also, beauty fades, but a good person will stay that way.

Maybe you've never had a bf because you're not letting guys see the real you? Or maybe you're just young and it isn't your time yet? Or maybe you're mean to guys, or too easy to get. Develop your own interests and give it time.

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you could really use some self esteem. People don't always have to be the prettiest person in a room to be the most desireable. Personality and a quiet confidence sends out a lot of good vibes.

Answer 6

while physical attraction has some effent on a man, for me it has to be a total package. i have dated really good looking women that were a few fries short of a happy meal, and some that had didnt have the drop dead looks , but made me laugh and really enjoy the time spent together.

looks are NOT everything , even though it seems that way these days

Answer 7

grow up and start concentrating on yourself dont be so focused on other people looks and what ther doin do you think they do that with you. there are worse of people that you in the world and they dont care about look. it isnt the most important thing in the world its just boring too talk about looks all day if you are like that all you time must be consumed with just that . start getting out and having a life in other words get busy stop thinking so much stop being selfish

Answer 8

Go to an art gallery. You will notice the most of the nudes aren't of skinny girls. Guys find the more curvy figure attractive, skinny just looks unhealthy. Think about it. The girls that are making you jealous. Why don't they have guys of their own? You are obviously the better catch.

Answer 9

i don't get your point- you're not Angelina Jolie so you are doomed?

c'mon, make the MOST of what you HAVE and be the best YOU you can be.

you think Maggie Ghyllenhall is "classically" beautiful? NO, but she's a combination of MANY attractive things which makes her incredibly HOT and desirable- i'd marry her in a MINUTE!

Answer 10

Its true, attractive women are treated better in life. but that doesnt mean they are loved better. never doubt the gift you've been bestowed. revell in the love, rather than doubt it.

p/s would you rather be given the best seat in the restaurant, surrounded by men who wants to catch a glimpse of you OR dine with a man who you KNOW loves you?