me and my boyfriend were together for almost 2 years now. we love each other deeply...! we are now planning for our future but sometimes i have a feeling that it will not work out the way we planned because he was'nt graduate from college. nowadays its really hard to find a job most esp. when someone is not graduate from schooling. but i love him dearly.....would i follow my heart of my parents and relatives because they dont like him too because of that? pls help.....
2007-03-06 19:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by ashLey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hate to say it but if your family disnot like him that,s a real problem, try to find a sulution and ask your parents why they don,t like him maybe he can improve and prove that he,s good enght for you. but follow your heart. family is very important, and hate is not good in a family fine a new love.
2007-03-06 19:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the label of your education. If you are a person with a high education and have a good earning job don’t go with some one doesn’t graduate from college, not completing his education till now special if he is in his late ages means his lazy so even if u get marred to this man he will not change any further, if he dosent stand for him self he want for u & there will be complexity as u continue to have more cusses and progress. You might say as far as we love each other but love dosent go any further if there is a no equality specially when a man is less ability as the women.
2007-03-07 04:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by yassmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that love can't pay the mortgage, but you need to marry the person you love not the person that can give you the best living there is. What if he goes back to school? He can get a better job, maybe you don't love him enough to marry him if you are considering not marrying the guy because he doesn't have a college degree.
2007-03-07 03:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by I MISS YOU! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ashley, if you really love Him, and you must be the sopporter for Him (even impact for your future too).
Let say now ha has no job and not graduated, encourage him to look for job no matter what, try to help him find out what is His talent that could help him to make money.
For instance he is good in writing and reporting....and encourage him to wrte a story sent to news paper (as columnis), or apply as reporter even free-lance for the start.
Dig dig and dig what his specialty that could help...
See his spirit to fight for the future of both of you.
And if his spirit is not strong enought to fight, no other way, you should retreat, coz you cant count on your lives with man like that.
It means you can made decision...but for now, to soon to decide, otherwise you`ll regret later
Good luck
2007-03-07 03:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at Hollywood. You can be rich beyond your dreams and still be miserable. True love is hard to find, going back to school at a later time is always an option.
2007-03-07 03:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart here.would u be able to cope up with the sneer campaign coming from your family after u marry him?Perhaps its not too late yet...u can still convince him to do his graduate..at least some sort of courses that hold somewhat equivalent value to graduation.He should be able to understand u too Hun.He has to win u...a little bit of sacrifice wont hurt that much.It might be tough for him to study at this stage...after the study gap..but not impossible.good luck
2007-03-07 03:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this past 2 years did he in anyway shown you that he's incapable of providing you a secure future shud u two get married. If no then carry on girl. So wat if he's not a graduate. As long as he's having a legal job, u shud be happy.
2007-03-07 03:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may get a job that pays good. and for you are you thinking of money. or him. think about that.also go with your heart. not them
2007-03-07 03:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart no matter what!
2007-03-07 03:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lovely money OR rich love
2007-03-07 03:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋