I want to have sex with my GF but she is not obliging. W have had sex once before but since we got formally engaged 15 days back, she says she wants to "wait" before our marriage. Dunno what "wait" is she talking about !!!! Also how do I convince her, she might think I am a guy who wants only sex from life ......am confused & desparate, plz help.
2007-03-06 19:03:33 · 18 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're wrong.
Don't ever attempt to have sex before you're married. Be one the few honorable men out there and not merely another jerk in the sea of all alike.
2007-03-06 19:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she says this, just get married quickly and she will be ALL OVER YOU on the honeymoon and when you're married. Sex will be much better if you just oblige to her wishes now. I'm suprised you're engaged and have only had sex with her once before actually.
2007-03-07 03:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are a sensitive, new age guy..you must know that she wants some personal space and forcing her to do it is not an act of respect for her. As you say you have done it once, perhaps she had regrets after that. So respect her decision and "wait" till she is ready for it. Good luck.
2007-03-07 03:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude dont lose heart.
After all mairage is on the line.
You see , that from my point of view your GF is right in just one way.
I agree that it is ok to have sex with your fiancee but just waiting & controlling your sex drive may represent you as a true strong MAN.
Just love her the way she wants you to.
And dont get desperate in life; after all life is full of challenges
2007-03-07 03:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunil m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it sounds like you actually just want sex!!
I mean what else can she think about u when u ask her to have sex? when she is not willing?
Listen, dont do that, she might think you are sex freak or something like that...and it might cause a breakup
Be patient and wait as she said, just dont ask her for a certain period of time and then make a romantic move...may be that will help you
Good luck!
2007-03-07 03:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are confused and desparate. How old are you...16? Good luck to your GF to staying NON pregnant. UR not ready for marriage!!!
2007-03-07 03:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by bluei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say you were desperate you have a point on what your coming from !
Well shes probably waiting for the special wedding nite but other than that she probably thinks ur a deperate type ! so shes doing this to make u mad ! butif i were you i would tell her that i could no longer waint because i need to make love to you !
2007-03-07 03:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why are u being so desperate?try to respect and honor her...it wont hurt u.If u love her then u would understand...give her the space...u'll have sex and lots of sex after u get married...waiting wont kill u dear.good luck
2007-03-07 03:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Room mein jao Muththi lagao
2007-03-07 04:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Raheel K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to control yourself, if she is not ready, then wait till she agrees, only then you can have a comfortable sex.
2007-03-07 03:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Sona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋