my best friend got into a relationship with this guy who i know all he wanted was sex and i tried telling her that but she snapped at me...so no she gave it up to him....and theyve only been goin out for two months...she only gave to him once and now he has been treating her like crap and finally tonight he broke up with her and she is devastated and crying...i have no idea wut to say to her..i need some answers fast...she can barely talk she's crying so much and she even mentioned wanting to die and go away...she says that she just wanted a guy in her life to love her since her father couldnt and she got me all teary eyed for her help me out!!
2007-03-06 18:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happens a lot when there is a absent father. Your friend needs to know this is what happens when you have sex with a guy they leave. They aren't going to stay around just because you have sex with them.
He treated her crappy right after is the way to say this is your sign I'm gone. She has t know that she is better off without him no one needs a guy to treat her bad. Because he will never stop. That is no way for anyone to live she just has a broken heart right now and it's worse because she gave herself t him. But she will be ok just don't let no one else play her like that again. He will get it back someone will hurt him.
2007-03-06 18:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk and she doesn't need someone like that in her life. Tell her that even though it hurts right now, it just takes time and she will eventually get over him. Tell her that she will eventually find someone that will treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. In the mean time, she needs to stay busy, hang out with friends, do something she loves to try to keep her mind off of him. If he tries to contact her, she should NOT talk to him. He will just do the same thing to her. Ask her if she was seriously happy being in a relationship where this guy treated her like crap and used her. No one needs a loser like that. But she should seek counseling since she's saying that she wants to die. Don't ignore things like that. But just let her know that you are there for her. Hope it helps, God bless.
2007-03-07 02:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is obiviously a jerk i have been through the same thing and it takes time im not gonna lie but you have to suck it up and move on its for the best you dont want a guy that is mean and hateful you want one to treat you with respect you will find someone to love you no matter what!!!! trust me i know!
2007-03-07 09:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥SaLz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to see a counsellor...fast. Or she'll keep doing the whole father replacement thing. And a self esteem course wouldn't go astray either.
2007-03-07 02:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋