I had sex with my teacher i'm in 12th Now she is pregnant What to do please tell me
2007-03-06 18:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
Your teacher have committed a crime because it certainly is illegal for any adult to have sex with a minor. I'm sure you know that.
I doubt she would say anything about your extracurricular activities together, because she knows the troubles she's in.
If you tell your parents, (which is the right thing to do), I am sure that they will call the police, and press charges against that teacher. She would be facing easily 2-10 years in a penitentiary, would never be allowed to work near children. Obviously you will never be allowed to see her, much less be with her, for as long as you are a minor.
So, perhaps you need to talk to her and find out what she wants to do before you speak to your parents. But YOU MUST tell your parents.
2007-03-07 00:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by David G 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First-Make sure of wether or not she wants to keep the baby. And let her know your feelings on the matter. Be honest and make sure she is being honest with you. Next step if she is keeping the baby is to make sure by using a DNA test that you are the father. Who is to say she has not had sex with other classmates or faculty or someone you are not even aware of. If you're not the dad you do not want to have the burden of raising a child at your age. If you are the father then it's time to get a good source of income. If she wants to have an abortion and it's yours then you have to ask your self what your feelings are on abortion. Personally I feel the decision ultimately rests with the woman, but the man should express his opinion to her, and why each feels the way they do. Hopefully the two of you will agree on what is best for not only the fetus but what the consequences will be for both of you. A year from now... two ... five years...fifteen years. A child is a lifetime commitment and needs the support of both parents to grow up somewhat normally. I don't think there is any family out there that is not "disfunctional", we all have our quirky ways and will pass these traits on to our offspring in a variation of the same. Nothing you can do about that. But keeping a child on track is easier if the family in his life consists of the two biological parents. Not one parent most of the time or half the time and then shuffling the kid off to see the other parent for the weekend or the summer. Nope, the parents should think about the kid they made first if the fetus is to be brought to term.
If she wants an abortion and you want that too then great! You both agree and can be more careful in the future.
An old joke goes like this: "You know what they call guys who pull out to prevent a pregnancy?", .............
..Father or Daddy
Seriously though, I am envious of you. Teachers did not put out for the students when I was in school, although I wanted many a teacher through the grades I never got lucky like you.
So get some form of birth control and keep up the good work. High five.
2007-03-07 04:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Po Boy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all I don't think you should be thinking marriage because you're way too young and you still have a lot of life to experiences before deciding that. Second of all She committed a crime regardless if you were willing and Third How do you know if it yours( is she married ,is their other students ). First thing tell your parents because weather they press charged or not their still going to be grandparents and need to know. Once you do that you and your parents and the teacher (maybe) will work it out. Sorry for your pain but next time use protection because some girls will lie and some will deceive Good luck and God be with you.
2007-03-08 21:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should not say(whole things) this but as you are young please try to control your sexual feelings, Off course you may had visual appeal with that teacher and had sex with her but even though have some control on your adolescent feelings.
You don't worry about this event this mistake totally falls on the teacher because she is a grown up lady and she must had controlled her feelings and should not have used it with a student who is minor by age.
Let her face the consequences put all the blames on her practically speaking she must have avoided this and must have advised you to concentrate on some other good things.
My dear friend if you want to control this sexual feeling engage yourself in some other good, useful activities. Daily go to temple and pray to god, do some prayers every morning have some nice talks with others and chat interesting topics with your friends off course in this age u cannot avoid talking about sex but talk lesser about that and continue with some other things like sports etc.
Don't take it as advise, just take it as a suggestion given by your e-friend.
May god save you from this problem and help you to come out of it and shine in your life.
All the Best!!!!
2007-03-10 12:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kausik C.S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious....
Call Opera....she will pay you to tell the story, give the baby a home, and let you marry the teacher once she gets out of jail!
Seriously....
She is a grown woman...let her deal with the social burdens of raising the child. If you feel it is yours and want to part of its life...do so from a distance.
2007-03-07 03:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you in love with her? If yes discuss about her with your parents. If you are not, discuss the matter with her and tell her that she should get the abortion done , since you cant marry her and this was a one time event that has led to this state. You of course should offer to pay for the expenses.
2007-03-07 03:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vijay D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What u had to be done or notdone, you have done it. U need not do anything more now. Whatever is to be done will be done by yr teacher. Just follow her instruction just like followed in class and in yr life.
2007-03-10 12:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by ramachandra_k2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r young and u shouldnt have committed this mistake.ask her whats her nxt step, if she intends to have the child?talk it out with her.dont get tensed be calm.marriage is something u cannt at this age,so search for options.god help u...
2007-03-07 03:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by mots 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to worry. You are a student you have all rights to make mistakes and she is your teacher and its her duty to correct her student's mistake. So don't worry have fun.
Just don't worry she will take care. She is matured enough.
2007-03-10 15:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by singh_kv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U can marry her and I am sure u will be very happy. A teacher knows how to please her student and punish her student. U are lucky, many students could only fantasize about their teachers......
2007-03-08 06:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋