were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else. How can i show her???
2007-03-06 18:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there, think i can translate this one for ya lol. with all the pillow fights, jokes, cuddling, etc means she is very into you, and isnt worried about being herself around you. touching is a sign of wanting, or wanting to give affection, so thats also a plus.
when it comes to getting mixed feelings because she studying, its one of two things: A. she really is just studying, not trying to ignore you, but giving her work just as much attention as you, which is not a bad thing, or B. she is feeling self consiouse about herself. do you give her the same kind of attention or show the same kind of attraction to her as she does to you? maybe she is the one confused and not sure if you feel the same way for her. if so, it could cause her some down time and be covered up by a little fib like "im studying"
reassure her by treating her in the same ways she does with you.
when she talks to you about stress in school and so forth, it means she feels very comfortable with you and is able to easily open up to you. so take that as a sign to.
she likes u dude, go for it!
2007-03-06 18:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by julanne l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Subbiee,
I would say that she likes you, only it appears that there is a communication issue here. Have you told her that you like her, or are you scared of her response? Perhaps she sees you as a brother type figure (with the pillow fights?).... I really don't know and I guess the only way you'd find out is by asking her. If you put the moves on her and she pulls away, that'd be one way of knowing what's going on???? If she's not into you, then she's being a REALLY big flirt!
Maybe you should come to Australia and try and find a lovely young thing here?
Good luck!
2007-03-06 18:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by jocatgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she likes you, all that attention for nothing I think not! She's giving all the body language signs, touching you, being close to you, playing with your things, As for the mixed signals during the day she's studing? Hello she's "studing" she very well can't give that undivided attention at that time. Sharing her personal thoughts and struggles, Oh she more than likes you!
You need to come out and straight tell her how you feel, no beiong bashful either, girls love maturity, so what are you waiting for go tell her.........Don't be wondering the what if...after the chance has passed you by....
2007-03-06 18:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I like a guy I try to get physically close to him, like brush up against him, have my leg touch him under the table, sit close, etc. So that's a good sign.
I don't understand the sleep thing...that just sounds plain weird. But everything else says I like you...but it could just be that she feels really comfortable with you as a friend. But I dont get physcially close to my friends, so.
Take the chance. Life is too short not to. Just go in for the kiss. Or if you want to be less physical ask her out on a date...and make sure she knows it is a date.
Hope that helps!
2007-03-06 18:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wager is somebody who won't be able to sing, has the appearing skills of a walnut, and a blonde regulate ego who has began a cult of 7-3 hundred and sixty 5 days-previous females. Ha. You by no potential reported something approximately Miley Haters. LOL JK JK. I despise Nick Jonas yet i assume he'd like somebody on Disney.
2016-10-17 11:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by croes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k mate thats called flriting over her in aust and i flirt wif all guys but there is this 1 guy and i do the same thing to him so just flrit back she will then give you more of an idea if she really does like you hope this helps:)
2007-03-06 18:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by i love scotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you. When u two are alone, tell her how you feel. She's probably trying to give you hints. If u don't tell her, you may never know. She probably doesn't know how you feel. Good luck.
2007-03-06 18:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tellher every thing you like in her - even small things are very important - may be she never noticed how much you like in her and how much you love her. Good luck!
2007-03-06 18:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does that then she really really likes you and has feelings for you. You should give it a try. Ask her out. You'll get used to it and i bet you'll like her.
2007-03-06 18:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by JAMILAH D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her... soz but thats all i can say. She definitely like you so just say it!
2007-03-06 18:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by AuSsii3 Ang3L♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋