it was not the best friendship i had but i liked him so much- the relation is over but i do think about him most of the time & wishe him to call. i am unable to do much in my day & i feel hopless
2007-03-06 18:13:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont feel like that.
Life is something that never stop. Not even if someone you love and someone you spend your whole life with dies.
"Sometime you find the cure where the problem is"
What i meant by that is try getting busy make new friends(Boys) basically try to fill the gap he has created.
Time is something you should not have.
No time in hand No time to think about him.
Be Happy and Enjoy your life
2007-03-06 18:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you want him to call the more power you give him over your life.
Life is about relationships and they always change. The worst kind of change is when that relationship really ends....and I am not talking about break-up, i am talking about when a loved one dies.
Be grateful for any relationship, no matter if you like your current role in it or not, at least you have a role...when they are gone, the role is gone too. I know that sounds harsh but if you take a step back, you will see that you are crying over spilled milk. However, when the milk jug is empty, thats it, there is nothing left.
My opening statement still stands. Rejection is hard, dealing with finality is harder. Rejection is not always final, it can be fixed over time, but how you try to fix it will determine if you are successful.
Dont be too aggressive, just be there, and see what happens, and no matter what, be grateful you still have a role ...no matter where it leads, as long as that person is still around to be in your life...no matter how distant. If you really like or love that person, then you should have no problem with that.
Good luck!
D@N
2007-03-06 18:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dan The Answer Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Healing over a loss usually takes time. Although you liked him, it seems you kind of idealized him, you are saying it wasn't the best friendship. You shouldn't try to forget him anyways, you must learn from your past and use it to better your future. I would suggest going out and making some new friends not to "replace" him, but to fill the gap in your day and let you have some enjoyment. If you fill your day with excitement it may even be better than when you were with him. It will take time, but realize you can't live in the past, what is done is done and you have NO control over it. So work for the future, but LIVE in the present.
2007-03-06 18:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Waddy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's never hopeless!!! I have a freind named Susan i've been trying to call for a while, but since i got a new number ,no one answers....Maybe it's something like that...Maybe he's thinking of you too, but, for one reason or another he can't get in touch....Anyway, live life! Don't ever base your happiness on the actions/in-actions of someone else! And then, no matter what happens, you'll be OK.......
2007-03-06 18:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by paradigm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a couple months but you will get over it and be back to normal in no time. Get busy with other things that make you happy
2007-03-06 18:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to forget someone is to find someone new or stay busy.
Spend more time with your other friends, volunteer somewhere, take up a new hobby, etc...
2007-03-06 18:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not hopeless. If he has hurt you then he is useless and hopeless. Focus on something or someone else. He is not worth it. You will find true love.
2007-03-06 22:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesson to music write a letter but don,t give it to him and write a journal, a book of your thoughs.
2007-03-06 18:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself occupied. sometimes having a rebound bf helps
2007-03-06 18:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him yourself. gauge your feelings for him. if its still that strong, tell him.if it;s not, find another guy worthy of your love..=)
2007-03-06 18:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by WAHMaholic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋