2007-03-06 18:11:18 · 34 answers · asked by rhey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You don't love the other girl. You just want some 'strange'. Happens to everyone. For real. I'm not kidding. You made a vow , live by it! Don't be a weak little boy. Step up and be a man.
2007-03-06 18:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
When you married your wife it was a commitment for life not for until you get bored and want to move on. Go back to your wedding photos/video and remember how you felt then ask your wife to forgive you for thinking about other girls. Love her and take care of her. in good times and bad times which means ALL times. Stay away from the other girl.
2007-03-09 17:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your wife and are really in love with this other girl, then be honest with your wife, she has a right to know. If you dont have the courage to do that, then don't ruin both relationships by carrying on with the girl. Whatever you do, if you really do love these people in your life, be honest. hope that helps.
oh and i forgot to mention, you have made a commitment to your wife, for the rest of your life. try to keep that in mind when you try to figure this out. don't let it's popularity confuse you, divorce is an ugy thing...
2007-03-06 18:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by satirev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the former "girlfriend" of a married man I can tell you that you are doing both women a disservice. My "relationship" always seemed uncertain because he's was lying to her and most certainly lying to me. In the end it went really bad for everyone. If you love your wife, communicate to her what you are going through and what you are feeling. Additionally be honest with yourself and really get in touch with why you think that you are in love with someone in addition to your wife. It may be that you are just restless or repressing something. Most importantly pray on it or seek the counseling from your pastor. You want to make informed decisions not just decisions based on the flesh. When that happens nobody wins.
2007-03-07 01:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by dedakated1236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love both? There can be only one space for one sacred person. If you think that I'm one of those that think marriage is oh so secret, and that I'm ignorant, there's one thing I'll ask you:You wouldn't like it if it was your wife entertaining these thoughts, now would you?
Either divorce your wife or forget about that girl. I think you are curious about that girl... It's something new, and your wife is... not as new to you. In my opinion anyway. It wouldn't be fair to the both of them. Wait... do you love your wife or are you IN love with your wife? Now you got me wondering what you meant... If you aren't in love with her, don't toy with her feelings!
In any case, think carefully :which one is more important to you..
2007-03-06 18:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normale, 'cause we are 6 billions on the planet.
So, one day or another it's must happen.
The rest is up to you on what you are gonna do.
If I was you I'll concentrate on the wife.
Sometimes it's just a pass you know.
So yup! that's part of the tests of marriage.
Good Luck
2007-03-06 18:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Gardenia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should love your wife more than the girl that you love.You should think that anything can happen between you and your wife.
What do you feel if...your wife feel in love with somebody else....
Do you want this thing happen in your family?
2007-03-06 19:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband said the same thing to me....he loved me, but then I was five months pregnant and he said he had arrangements with someone else.......
It hurts. Not just me, but my children, my ex had to lie to the Catholic Bishop or whoever just so he could marry his lover (Catholics don't remarry,,,,,,well, except for my ex, but its a good thing lent was near :-)
My daughter came home crying from their wedding because he told her that our marraige never happened, I made him show her the marraige certificate. Divorce stinks, especially when your spouse decides something isn't as green as next door.
My question to you is why did you marry in the first place......was it just convenient to you or that you "thought" you loved her?
Don't treat her like that. Your wife deserves the respect that you had for her when you married her, so some other girl with bigger boobs comes along, or more love for you, or what?
Speak in common English, also, that does much better when you file for divorce because you found someone else and "i in love other girl" just doesn't make the judge so lenient towards you.
Good luck, slime bag.
2007-03-06 18:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Love can happen one time...
Decide who is ur true LOVE...
It will be unfair with ur wife...
There is highest chances of just an attraction from that girl..
Make sure what exactly u want do...
It's all abt u and ur wife LIFE....
Good Luck !!
2007-03-06 18:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by hitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....what to do, what to do...you should've never gotten involved in the first place. You are MARRIED. That means: no more strange love from others. Good luck. You should get a divorce, then end it with the girlfriend and start over. Nothing good can come of this, trust me....
2007-03-07 11:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋