how can you tell if the guy you are dating is gay?

Answer 1

There aren't really can ways to tell i fa guy is gay unless he checks out another guy while you are dating. You can always watch gay, straight, or taken and see if you are correct who is gay

Answer 2

Well you can't tell by looking at him. My quess is that if he doesn't get intimate with you over a period of time or if he is not interested in females sexually, may be a clue. Another way to find out is to ask him, if he has ever been with a guy. Being gay nowadays is no longer "In the closet". However, if he changes the subject or get's nervous, then you should look at the question marks that pop up inside your head.

Answer 3

If he's homophobic, he may be gay. If a guy is very accepting of gays, and doesn't make mean jokes about them, it means that if he WERE gay he'd have come out already. A guy who is homophobic is always a suspicion.

If you find gay porn on his computer, it means he's gay.

EDIT: Just because he wears women's clothes or wears makeup, as some people suggested, doesn't mean he's gay. Most transvestites are straight as straight can be, so if he wants to wear your panties, that's a sign he's more likely straight than gay. Very few gay men prefer women's clothes.

Answer 4

Gay mags in closet, large quantities of lubricant hidden around house, condoms in house (if your on the pill), sexy briefs he never wears for you, lack of sexual desire, gay porn history on computer, he goes out to dinner with other guys, he spends the night at another guys house (same guy and frequently), desires only getting oral from and giving anal sex to you, he dressing in a feminine manner (always neat and tidy – never in the construction guy look).

I only know this because these were the same signs displayed in a friends marriage by the queen, uh, husband. He ended up getting a divorce, deserting the kids and moving in with his male lover. Wife is still devistated and the kids are an emotional mess.

Answer 5

Well, if he won't tell you, you may not be able to figure it out at all. There have been men who have tried to get out of the lifestyle by entering a relationship with a woman only to get sucked back into it again. There's no way to really say that by looks, voice, expressions or non-verbal cues. Some have some general physical clues but you can't base judgment of that on physical features and vocal cues.

Answer 6

If he is gay he will either be homophobic in his behavior ( denial) or he won't be dating you unless you are a guy. If he is dateing you and you are a gal and he isn't homophobic he is either straight or bi. Then your only worry is if he's cheating. Some bi people think it is OK to cheat with someone of the opposite gender from their other partner ( one of each). If someone is Bi and faithful there shouldn't be an issue.

Answer 7

I do not think he would be gay if he is dating u he may be a bi. U can never tell if somone is a bisexual or not. But if he was bi/gay he would like 2 anal he would look at guys n say he has a nice this or that and do wat a normal guy would do if they where looking at a girl but insted of a girl it is a guy

Answer 8

Seems like he has a wandering eye for men only, seems more happier and excited when talking to a fellow male, is quite interested in fashion (could be confused with a metrosexual though), has pride in grooming.

Answer 9

Uh...if he flirts with other men, wears makeup, paints his toes and finger nails, ask you to dress up as a football player while doing it, or if he talks about how hot men are..that should indicate that he is gay. One one more thing, if he has more GIRLfriends than GUYfriends.

Answer 10

If he brings his boyfriend on the date with you and they start making out. That would be a pretty big clue!