How Do I Make the First Move???

Question

I'm a girl.
I never had a boyfriend in my life. too Independant.
I want someone...

And the thing is that I'm not someone who runs after the guys. And the guys don't really come to me, cause I'm intimidating (thats what my friends says). So no choice i have to make the first move...
But how do i do that?!?!

thanks

Answer 1

Making the first move doesn't neccessarily mean you have to ask him out. Maybe you can just send him a subtle signal. An example: Hand him a note that says "Let's just be friends. Just kidding. Let's get married, and I'm not kidding on this one."

Answer 2

You probably shouldn't, unless you know something about the person youre making a move on. If you initiate the relationship you will be the one responsible for it from that point forward. Unless you want a man you can dominate, which might not be too bad if its only you he allows to dominate him. If you decide you want to make that move you have to do the same thing guys nomally have to do. You have to evaluate who you want to talk to and you have to initiate a conversation with that person, it will be easier for you because guys are used to picking up the conversation if the conversation flows introduce yourself and then move to another type of activity, dancing, eating, drinking (you can buy him a drink if you dare or better still request one if youre trying to get him to take the lead again). Make sure phone numbers are exchanged and hope that he takes the lead after you have made that first move.

Answer 3

smile :)