i have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months and i asked her about sex and she said sure i loved to bit now eery time i ask her if she wants to do it she says " i am not that horny" she says that if i kiss her neck or boobs that gets her a bit horny but for how long u can kiss somebodys boobs
is there a easier way to get my girlfriend really horny
please help
2007-03-06 18:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, what works for me is: start kissing her for about 3-7 minutes with your hands on her face to tell her you so deire her. Almost forgot 1st sit her down on top of you facing you .Ok then slowly caress her back with your hands when you get to about ten minutes of kissing bring one hand to her x part and slowly go up and down softly rubbing over her jeans, for about 3 -5 seconds if she does'nt get the hand off put it back there and slowly keep rubbing. I f she moves it than move to rubbing on her y's section due the same thing for over 20 seconds real slow that should boost her up to gear. Good luck thats all you after enjoy the ride.
2007-03-08 09:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Javier C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her clothes need to come off.The best way of doing that is by running her a steamy bath with candles and soft music at ;the back ground. after her bath give her a full body massage,head to toe,on both sides! finally give her a glass of wine,red or white makes no difference,that will definitely get her in the mood for love! try it,works every time!
PS: try to stay away from Mondays and Fridays,the reason being that Monday is the beginning of the week,recovering from the week end,most likely she will not be in the mood for love! Friday is the end of the week,she might be too tired,good luck!
2007-03-06 18:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just her way of trying to educate you that women need a good 20 minutes of foreplay prior to the act to get their hormones flowing properly so that they have some chance of having an orgasm. Take the hint. Spend the time (see above). It will pay big dividends.
2007-03-06 18:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, that's hilarious. I thought you were gonna say you were shy about the whole thing but then you talk about rubbing her vag. Nice. Anyway, if you want her to feel good, start off slowly. Don't just go straight to the vag. Lol. She wants to make it last. Rub two of your fingers down her arm. To her sides. Then down her legs. Gently. Give her goosebumps. Don't ever stop moving your hands. Rub them all around her body and legs. Gently. And just use the tip of your fingers. Then just open her legs for her. Keep rubbing around her body while getting closer and closer to the vagina. Take off from there. Lol.
2016-03-28 22:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes kinda puttin excuses.. if she just said "yes sure id love to" doesnt sound very convincing.. plus.. those areas are very sensitive to a girl so her sayin "iam not that horny" sounds liek a pathetic excuse.. maybe shes embarrased in tellin u that shes not ready to take that step. be a gentlemen and dont rush her, be patient and wait.. rushin her wil only make things worse.. all on its time..
2007-03-06 18:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♠Nekogal♠ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called foreplay.
Her boobs and neck are where you should focus your attention to get her in the mood. Then you can move around.
2007-03-06 18:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting that far then you are in good shape. So be patient and do what it takes. And how long, well the journey is part of the trip.
2007-03-06 18:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn movies and massage her while you're watching and once the scene gets hot, that's when you start kissing her neck and holding her boobs. TAKE YOUR TIME! DON"T RUSH.
2007-03-06 18:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by knodz_g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry guy, Girls are like crock pots and guys are like microwave ovens. Foreplay is a girls best friend. When she is ready she'll let your know. Just hang in there and pleasure her.
2007-03-06 18:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Buy her jewelry. That usually gets the juices flowing pretty quickly.
2007-03-06 18:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋