When a guy shows interest in me, I find reasons to sabatoge it and I feel as if I'm not worthy.
How can I get past this and build my self esteem?
2007-03-06 17:54:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll try and help
Your as beautiful as the stars are plenty; your smile could melt and iceberg; If there were a million women on the earth all looking to me, I would still pick you out, to be with now and forever. Being with you is the happiest moments in my life, your blazing eyes touching my soul every moment, that I think about you and adore you for who you are, the soul you possess.
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2007-03-06 18:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You weren't born with a negative self image. Through a series of
negative actions and comments you began to form a negative opinion about yourself. When no one else was around to speak negatively about you, you did it yourself. When God made you, He
put His best in you. No negatives. As humans we 'contaminate' each other with fault finding and insults, real or imagined. Most of the time when we do it, it is to build ourselves up by tearing others down. You can reverse the way you feel about yourself.
Speak kindly about yourself. Do the same with others. There is nothing wrong with you. We are all are own worst enemies and you do more damage to yourself when you speak or think negatively of yourself than when anyone else does. Only God can define you, ( He has more power to do so than you or anyone else). It's really is okay to compliment yourself. Take one day at a time. Someone told me once that when you put yourself down, you insult God because you are saying to Him that He did'nt do a good job when He created you.
2007-03-07 02:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eliana, by asking the question you are on the road to helping yourself. Your first relationship is always with yourself. That is the one on which to concentrate. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself without judgment. Learn to recognize that you are your own best friend. After all, if you can't learn to love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to love you? If you can truly love and honor yourself you will only choose guys who you truly believe will honor you. And those guys you won't feel uncomfortable with...because you will already know that you are wonderful and deserving of their attention. Be the kind of person you would want as a best friend. Be your own best friend. You will find that dealing with guys becomes easy. After all, they have exactly the same problems you do.
2007-03-07 02:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell all of your girl friends about every guy you like. And tell your girl friends about this problem. The guys need to be assertive. You really shouldn't try to avoid a guy interested in you if you're also interested in him. If he's into you, you should take it as a compliment. I thought that girls are always flattered when guys are interested in them?
2007-03-07 02:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale
2007-03-07 02:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lee Edward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋