so I talked to my boyfriend about the problem we have been having and all he does is just ignore me...?

Question

he shuts me up in the middle of what im sayin and he just says im tired im going to sleep....so he doesnt want to be with me huh???

he just called me and i asked him if he was cheatin on me and he just flipped out...hes like how can youthink that ****..you know i love you..i ant belive you said that and all this other bullshit

Answer 1

I have run into this problem as well. I lived thru it for 3 years and what I found out by his pattern of behavior is... When he is good he want to listen and respond to whatever I want to talk about, but when he was bad (cheating, lying) he wouldn't stand still to discuss anything that I had to say about the relationship. He was afraid of what I might say or ask him. When he was guilty of something, he always wanted to leave our relationship at regular conversation and if he thought it was getting to deep, he would try to change the subject. Which in turn made me feel, lonely, used, tossed aside and starving for affection. If he continue not to listen, then you should look the other way, if you're willing to do so. He does not respect your feelings and he really could careless if you are hurting or not. He just don't want to hear what you have to say. Think about his behavior and do some investigation, if he don't think you're nagging him, then there's a possibility that he's with somebody else.

Answer 2

Dear its natural that yu are concerned about this phenomenon of him ignoring you.First of all you have to keep one thing in the back of the mind is that Guys are very very sensitive and are very very emotional.some of them show it out but most do not... its just the male instinct and ego that makes them do that.
Now coming to the point saying that he is ignoring you the basic friction is happening coz i think u are unconsciously doing smething thats kinda bothering him.He in the other hand as a matter of fact isnt showing up the reality but is trying to ignore the statements u have for him..... This could be a possiblity......
BUT UNDERSTAND evry1 in this world came for a purpose and they have the right to be themselves ...even u have the right to be urself nobody is no1s property. All that u can do is to give more love and love and bind him in ur love so that they can reciprocate to the love, but not the conditions u set for the love.
If u can give him love and if u can make him understand that ure love for him is UNCONDITIONAL u can make him do anything and he will surely listen to u...
what im sayin is.... there " might or may " be something frm ur part thats bothering him... talk to him sweetly..... fix that bug thats eating ur relationship away...give him more love than he actually deserves...Treat him with respect.....punish his mistakes by love....as i said guys are sensitive..their conscience will kill them if they are doing smething bad to u when u genuinely love them..thats the best u can do dear...
try this and remember no1 belongs to NO1...u can make them do smething wit just LOVE

Answer 3

hey girl he's a jerk leave him before he do,,, u so sweet and kind and pretty put this headlines in ur mind and have a confidence in urself and if u really likes ya he'll try to reach u again and he'll never leave be soooooo cold with him no kissin' no hugin' just be urself and make him feel that he isn't in ur mind anymore and I'm telling ya u'll get over it and u'll find another one more serious than him.. take care and good luck

Answer 4

It sounds like he feels hes getting nagged just break up with him and get a new man. He doesn't want to resolve anything.

Answer 5

u r showin too much attention and luv babygurl get back at him n act careless n find someone else..then you'll c sum change sum boyz fake it but not too long....n they take u as a weakness when they c kindness trust me bein there done that

Answer 6

if he is doing that just leave him that shows he doesnt even consider you important enouigh to talk to you or even listen to what you gotta say, i think your more important than that and i dont even know you. he doesnt respect you is what it sounds like

Answer 7

ah..........sounds like a dysfunctional relationship. Why stick with it?

the bf needs to start communicatimg

Answer 8

if he doesn't want to listen to your feelings and concerns you might as well move on and stop wasting your time.

Answer 9

He's an ***. You are too for putting up with that. Tell him he has a small dick and dump him.. haha

Answer 10

aha..i guess we're on de same boat...its like avoiding..but im stil wondering 2..