Ive been dating this guy for about a month or so and we just started calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. So at this point Im just enjoying spending time with him but I dont see us being together forever but when I he told me the same thing I was thinking, I mean that he never sees us becoming serious it made me upset. Am I weird?
2007-03-06 17:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by Lousie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know, the best person to ask would be...I don't know YOU!
2007-03-06 17:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you are bothered by this because even though you know it is not going to last forever you want the person you are with to think that. It is selfish and normal behavior. Also maybe it bothers you to know that you are wasting your time with someone that you are not going to be spending the rest of your life with because your heart doesn't want you to waste your life on someone that is not your "the one" I don't know just a thought
2007-03-07 01:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by missnibbles6669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah u're not weird in fact rejoice cos you're normal. Maybe it got something u do with your ego. Cos he said it first before you. Don't fret over it. Since you both are thinking the same, enjoy it. You'll get over it sooner or later...... unless........ u fall for him. Then it's another story all together
2007-03-07 01:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think thats probably pretty normal. You want to feel like you matter to someone, even if they dont necessarily mean the world to you. If you dont see it going anywhere, end it now before you get more attached and get hurt more later.
2007-03-07 01:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't meant to be together. Fortunately you both realize that. Unless you feel like you're wasting your time you can still be friends.
2007-03-07 01:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth hurts no matter how you look at it or even if you knew it before hand to hear it out loud that hurts
2007-03-07 01:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ure not weird, u just need to accept the fact or dump him and go find ur soulmate
2007-03-07 01:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just bothered because you thought he was more into you than he really was.. so its hurting your ego to find out that he isn't
2007-03-07 01:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
inside some part of you sees him as your soulmate
2007-03-07 01:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by phxcityaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the truth hurts,,,even when you know its true
2007-03-07 01:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋