Actually I think I know the answer. Let me revise this. After the first date should you hang out with a woman with your friends or should you try to go on another date within the next week or so. Most of my dates have been quite attractive (and mostly likely have had guys be obsessed with them). So I kind of feel 3 dates say in 3 weeks or so makes me kind of look like one of those overly interested guys, which unfornately for very attractive woman can be a turn off.
2007-03-06 17:21:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
going out on a date is better.. if she is not interested.. she would not accept to go on a date.
2007-03-06 17:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by 'mates'...if you're going to introduce her to an entire cricket team then that's probably too much too soon. But a double date is quite a good way of getting the conversation flowing easily and in many ways is a more informal date...less pressure. Perhaps a good option for the second or third date.
I fall into the category of 'very attractive woman'...and am 26...I know what you mean about overly interested guys being a turn off. But I am currently having trouble determining if the guy I want to see is not interested enough or like you scared of appearing too interested! Which is really frustrating.
At the end of the day if you can't just be yourself around this person then its probably all wrong anyway. But 3 dates in 3 weeks sounds ok to me, but a couple of thoughts...
> mix up the context of the dates...3 'gazing into your eyes across the table' dinner dates could be a bit full on
> don't arrange the next date straight up...wait till later in the week and think of something that can appear to be more casual and less deliberate...like 'Im just catching up with a couple of friends of mine at ?? for a few drinks, would you like to join us' Make it seem like you're going to do it anyway, whether she wants to or not...and then do...cause if she can't make it she'll be sure to ask you about it next time she sees you!
Hope that Helps!!
2007-03-07 02:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your on the first date really initiate whether you really like her and if she likes you. If you really like her and you want to see her again then go out agian.
Go out afew times and let your friends meet her once you have asked her out properely.
cos then if she says no then atleast you wont look so bad in front of ya mates.
Better to get the facts first
2007-03-07 01:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to take her out a few times before u brings mates into the equation. and if she is interested then takin her out once a week wont make u seem overly interested..
2007-03-07 01:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋