Been dating her for three years now but it was an unusual relationship to begin with. Currently, we live with my parents (which doesn't help the matter). Lately, she's become very distant. Whenever I try to talk to her she makes it clear that I'm bugging her. She's been very busy lately with 15 college apps, as well as honors courses in community college. I know the stress is getting to her so I've tried my best to make her more comfortable. I get her coffee every morning, make her breakfast every morning, and I do all the cooking and cleaning between the two of us. Everytime I suggest we go out to dinner, or watch a movie to relax, she yells at me. We haven't slept in the same bed for over a month now, she takes the Futon. I am about done with college and she's going to transfer to a 4-year school this summer. The plan was for me to follow her, however I find myself reconsidering. If I go with her, I do not want this hostilely towards me to continue. Any advice, please?
2007-03-06 17:17:46 · 1 answers · asked by Stuck in a Slump 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is stressed out
Talk to her tell her how you feel, she is going to scream at you but dont get angry stay calm and relaxed tell her that you dont want to fight over a thing like this and that all you want her to do is think about what you have said
Tell her that you have doubts about going with her but be clear that you dont suspect that she is cheating this will mess everything up for you guys
Good Luck
2007-03-06 17:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋