This guy I am going out with I really like, but he is just interested in dating a variety of girls, he doesn't want a girlfriend. I think he likes me alot, but should I keep going out with him in hopes of getting him to see only me or should I find a guy who is interested in having a relationship?
2007-03-06 16:50:20 · 17 answers · asked by mimi g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh honey. Get the book: He's Just Not That Into You.
2007-03-06 16:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rose of the Valley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear.. don't waste your time on someone who isnt willing to do so. Why choose a path to heart break if you still have choices now.
You will be wondering alot about where is he, what is he doing and who he is with whenever he is not next to you. I am sure you don't deserve stress like that.
Make your choice now and it leads you to the future of your choice. Good Luck!
2007-03-06 17:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamcometrue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're violating rule #1 when it comes to guys:
YOU CANNOT CHANGE PEOPLE.
I believe the divorce rate is so high because people put up with bad spouses hoping to change them. It's only when it's too late that EVERYONE realizes you can't change people. If he's a player, he will always be one. Don't let romantic comedies fool you.
2007-03-06 16:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you the same advice Tony Danza gave me on the day before my wedding to a 16 year old crab named Sharpie:
"Who are you? Why are you going through my stuff? Security!"
2007-03-06 16:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's a player. dont get me wrong players like who they date or flirt with but i think you should find someone who will be yours and only yours...theres more fish in the sea and tho it may be hard cuz u like him and all but really do you wanna come second or not be the only girl he flirts with?
2007-03-06 16:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is the guy? My boyfriend was a "man whore" until we got together. He never wanted to settle down. I kidnapped him and made him!! lol.. There is hope but until he tells you that he is ready to settle down with you, don't get too attached.
2007-03-06 16:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that is interested in having a relationship. definetly, unless you enjoy having your heart broken. it's your decsion, we're just here to give you advice. GOOD LUCK :)
2007-03-06 16:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking for something more then being one of many
women, time to find someone that looking for the same as you
do, he does not want the same as you do. and the only person
will be hurt is you.
2007-03-06 16:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys bad boys watcha gonna do? Watcha gonna do when they come for you?
your dealing with a bad boy.. You've been warned. So don't come back here complaining if it doesn't work out.
2007-03-06 17:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont thnik you should especially if you have pride in your self you are better than that hey. Your need to respect your self.
2007-03-06 16:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋