19 years old and still a virgin, whats wrong with me?????

Question

God, all my friends have gotten laid, even the nerdy ones..

Ive never had a gf, never kissed a girl.. My looks aren't the problem, its because I'm shy and don't make much of an effort to ask girls out

it's pretty sad, really. i've only asked 1 girl for her phone number (excluding friends who are girls..), but i was too pussy to call her and ask her out...then she lost interest in me by the time i actually did want to ask her out

What should I do to find a gf? I don't wanna be this inexperienced, most guys at this age have already had more than 2-3 gf's

Answer 1

Make a pact with yourself.

Let's say you meet a girl, and kick yourself for being too shy with her.

That will put her on a list with several dozen others, I imagine.

Now suppose you run into her again and have a second chance.

NO MATTER HOW SCARED YOU ARE, pursue it.

That's how I got my second girlfriend, for example.

Also, perhaps there are certain venues where you're at least somewhat less uncomfortable. For example, the first, second, and fourth women I had sex with I met at fairly lively college parties. The latter two became girlfriends. (The first just was passing through town visiting her undergrad roommate.)