Ok... My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago I never got over him and still love him very much. He has new girl now that he is "getting married" I know that he doesnt love her and I know he loves me... how do I go about getting him back??? He is in Texas and I am SC right now. He also told me the other night that he thought I looked better than she did and was better in bed.
2007-03-06 16:19:59 · 15 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is playing you, and that is not nice. He is either into you or he isn't. If he really wanted you he would still be with you. Saying you are better than is current girl is just a way to flirt and keep you on a string.
You deserve better. Cut the string and find someone who cares about you.
2007-03-06 16:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by idahoturkey 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This man is at the threshold of marriage, and he is still corresponding with you, his ex, about your superior looks and sexual prowess?
Certainly, that must make you feel fantastic. But you must understand that this man is already in a committed relationship, and he's still talking to his ex as though he were selecting between potential prom dates.
My opinion is that your ex is manipulating you (for whatever reason it may be: low self-esteem, financial matters, etc.), and that you should focus on purging him from your life. Not to sound too fatherly, but it really would be in your best interest to steer clear of him, or anyone else who would behave like that.
Hypothetical situation: you get back together with him. Everything is going great, and you eventually become engaged to be married, but he still insists on talking with his ex. You catch him talking to her one night, discussing how great she was in bed. It could happen.
Summary: don't waste your time with this guy--he's more interested in playing games than he is in having a stable relationship.
You deserve better than that.
2007-03-07 00:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery Viscera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a jerk to me. if he feels like the most important attributes about you are that you look better and are better in bed than his fiancee, he is definitely not worth the trouble. these are shallow things to say to another person and if these sort of comments are what make you think he is in love with you instead, you are deeply mistaken. looks and good sex should not be major factors to deterimine somones love, so i suggest you forget about him and find someone that love you for you, not your looks or talents in bed. you deserve better than that.
2007-03-07 00:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by How Sweet It Is 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psycho Nuts let him go it just wasn't meant to be. Let him go and let him realize that she is not the one for him. Maybe he is the on for her. You wouldn't want someone to do that to you if you were in her position. Let It Go. Whatever he tells you is just to try and run game on you. He knows that his life is going to change and all that pimpin is out the window so he wants one last crack at being adventurous.
2007-03-07 01:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him straight out. Besides, I think he may be bluffing about the getting married part because he wants to make you jealous.
After all, WHO gets married after only dating 3 months or less?
Since he told you how he feels about your sexual prowess and how much prettier you are than she is, it sounds like he's trying to get YOU to come back to him.
This is from a lot of experience talking here.
Just tell him you miss him terribly and you would like to get back together. I'll bet he drops her like a hot rock.
2007-03-07 00:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You love him he loves you but he is with someone else? He is not to bright it take brains and guts to ride the unpredictability of love let the pea brain go.
2007-03-07 00:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by shango 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY SWEET THING! I JUST HAPPEN TO BE IN SC. WAITING TO GET A LOAD AFTER I LAY OVER A FEW WEEKS. WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU, SWEET THIING. I WILL CALL YOU AND WE CAN HOOK UP. DAMN HIM. I AM NOT HOOKED UP. LIKE LINE DANCING AND WILLIE NELSON . HE IS MUY BUDDY AND I WAS BORN IN BROWNSVILLE. SAME AS GEORGE JONES. YEP, I AM GETTING GREY BUT EVERYTIOING IS WORKING. CLEAN, TOO. NOW HOW ABOUT YOU? YO0 DON'T PREFER BLACK DUDES DO YOU AND NOT ON THEAT CRYSTAL CRAP? I DONT SMOKE EITHER.
2007-03-07 00:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the wedding and when the priest asks for objections rise a hand and if he relay loves u he will come flyin'...
2007-03-07 00:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by The pimp 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg why would you want him back lol he wants someone to take care of him and you are just being stupid! You are better off without him. get a grip girl
2007-03-07 00:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't love her, then why is he marrying her? If he loves you, why isn't he marrying you? Sounds like he's feeding you a line of bull and you are falling for it.
2007-03-07 00:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋