Seeing the girl a couple of months, hung out 3-4x a week, last night spent together was fun for both, as were most (i'm pretty sure). Then, the next day, nothing. Avoided calls, though returned, and no initiated contact x a week, including an interval important life event. I've not had an unreturned call, though. Pretty sure i got dumped. Ladies...sound famililar? What the hell is that all about? Another dude? Bored? I'm baffled
2007-03-06 16:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a really hard thing to just give advice on or something, but I think maybe she has something on her mind that shes afraid to tell you. When you talk to her ask her if something is bothering her, or if she is alright. If she is ready to talk she'll tell you but she probably will need you to be there if shes upset about what she tells you. Be sympathetic.
2007-03-06 16:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to ya, but this sounds like a girl who's probably met someone else. I know there have been times when I liked a guy and started to grow tired of him but I didn't want to seem like a ***** and tell him I didn't want to talk to him anymore because the poor guy did nothing wrong. Maybe she's met someone else or just not having as much fun, but bottom line is she doesn't know how to break it to ya and is still trying to be a polite human being by returning your calls when it's convenient for her. When a girl knows what she wants she will be down for the chase but it sounds like this girl just lost interest. It'd be better if just move on and forget her. Let her wonder about you for a change and see what happens when you stop calling her...
2007-03-07 00:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Miss T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way! She's just not that into you!! This may sound harsh but we've all gone through it! If you look back on your conversations she's probably given you some hints that this would happen. This doesn't mean that something is wrong with you and it's more likely that she had something going on with herself. Don't sweat it, you're probably better off.
2007-03-07 00:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by ut303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww poor thing, sorry. if she did dump you without so much as an explanation, it was a cruel and heartless thing to do and you're probably better off without her. maybe she's been hurt before and is taking it out on you? hmmm dunno, sorry. i'm sure it's her loss. hang in there, maybe she has a good reason for not being able to talk to you for a while. give it a lil time. good luck
2007-03-07 00:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by butterflies4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby
2007-03-07 00:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you got dumped or she is now a missing person
2007-03-07 00:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What seemed great to you,,,maybe wasn't so great for her,,,
2007-03-07 01:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋