how do you ask a guy to go on a date w/o looking desprite.........
2007-03-06 16:09:27 · 43 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not lame. As long as you're not too aggressive it's cool. He'll just think you think he's special.
2007-03-06 16:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
No it is not lame at all, as long as you can accept a refusal.
Actually it is nearly always the female that gives the first approval signs that let a guy ask in the first place, so you have always been the initiators in normal circumstances, the held look, the shy smile, twiddling the hair, etc are usually needed to encourage the guy on.
Asking is more immediate and cuts out the games and after all, these are liberated times. Good luck.
2007-03-06 16:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Willie Wonky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not lame to ask a guy out. There is no desperation involved. In fact, some guys would rather you ask them out than to take a chance on asking you out and being rejected. So go for the brass ring and have a great time in knowing you are going after someone you want to share your time with.
2007-03-06 16:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by MICHELE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my current boyfriend through a friend (at the time); she was also his roommate. My buddy was a bit of a flake and an even bigger hoochie, and she always stood me up when we had plans if a guy asked her out last minute. Well, she thought her roommate was cute, but didn't want to ask him out because he was her landlord--this, of course, was not my problem.
On this particular day, she and I had plans to go to the movies, when her co-worker asked her out and she accepted, thereby breaking her plans with me. In outrage, I told her to put her super hot roommate, who I had only met once before, on the phone. Reluctantly, she did, and I explained to him that I had just been stood up and was already on my way over to their house, so if he didn't have any plans he should be ready to go. He didn't have plans, so I also told him that since I had just asked him out, he could at least be kind enough to choose the movie we were going to see. Four years late, he still loves my direct, impulsive nature, and we've been together every since!
2007-03-06 16:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by wendy_the_pyro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never lame. I have been asked out more than I've done the asking. Just drop big hints and he will eventually catch on. No need to look desperate. Just look interested and he will do the work.
2007-03-06 16:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by jjjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing and I mean nothing excites me more than a woman who goes out of her way to let a guy know that she is genuinely interested. By this I mean heavy flirting, direct stares, being kind when she doesn't have to, striking up conversations and pretending to be interested in anything you say even if she isn't. I have gone out with women who did this that I was not really attracted to physically, but was attracted to them after their effort. I personally don't feel comfortable with a woman asking me out, but like I said you can do everything else but that to get him to ask you.
2007-03-06 16:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by loveroffreedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!
They should do it more often! Women! Try it! IT works! This is 2007! Go get what you want! Woman work now... they have higher paying jobs! Heck... why dont you start paying for dinner too! Ande throw out the garbage while your at it.. And take the groceries in... unclog the toilet... change the oil on the car....
Hooray for 2007! I love womens rights! We should be equal!
2007-03-06 16:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Lincoln Park 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to ask a guy out, but let him know you are paying even though he will probably offer to. Just say something about a movie you would like to see, the kind of movie he might like, and see if he offers, if not say how about you and I going. The if he says no, he is an idiot or gay.
2007-03-06 16:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dutch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not lame at all... if you want him, then ask him out. Times are changing, it used to be the man asking the girl out, but now If you want him, go get em girl!!! Do it, don't wait.
2007-03-06 16:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Randy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest the 2 of you going out sometime. See his reaction, and take it from there. If he doesn't sound interested, he probably isn't. If he is, maybe you'll get lucky and he'll suggest a place or something. You could say "yeah, i've really been wanting to go see that new move _______, but i've got no one to go with" and see if he doesn't want to go with you.
2007-03-06 16:12:30 · answer #11 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋