Everyone always says to avoid the drama in relationships, but I really never knew what it meant. Today, the guy I am dating asked me if I like to get myself upset and if I like the drama. Is that what relationship drama is? If so, how do I stop?! I don't want to be the girl with all of the drama!
2007-03-06 16:05:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres always gonna be some drama in relationships.
if you want to reduce the amount of drama, you have to talk things out, maintain good communication, try to put yourself in his shoes to understand his point of view, etc etc... and try not to think so negative. thinking negatively all the time will bring drama.
2007-03-06 16:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a guy says this to his girlfriend when it seems like she is always picking a fight, bitching and moaning about everything.
You complain when he goes out for drinks with his mates and comes back drunk, or when he watch sport on the weekends or maybe complaining he doesn't spend to little time with you
It is all this little annoying things for guys, that makes them say such a thing and it is dangerous because he could go and look for something else which is not that difficult to handle or to please
Now how can you stop this, it is simple let him have his time with the guys and with the TV but as soon as it gets to much just tell him say to him you dont want to fight but this is what is bothering you he will be angry dont fight with him just say to him that he needs to think about it and leave it there
Show him what he is missing when is not around.
But the most important thing is to go out and do your own thing with your friends do the things you like, this will give both you the area to breath in, and you will appreciate each other more
2007-03-06 16:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋