First, this man is somewhat personal with everyone. He's very nice to almost everyone, and often a little flirtatious by nature. My question is this: is he just being himself with me, or is there more to it?...Examples I'm wondering about: Today I had a headache while we were in the car (traveling together for business) and he rubbed my head for like two minutes. I told him he didn't have to do that, and he said, "You don't want me to?" Then at lunch today he said that he misses me every day after I leave work. He touches me often, on the arm usually, or comes up and kind of pokes me in the ribs. Last week he asked me to meet him for breakfast because he needed a "fix" (meaning me) since we hadn't had a chance to talk in a few days. A few weeks ago we'd had a really bad day at the office and the following morning he put me into this big bear hug and held on for quite a while. Is it my imagination? Is he toying with me? Is it just his natural personality? Or is there more here? Thanks!
2007-03-06 16:03:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do that for my lady friends (and guys too!). I guess I am a 'giver' and not not a 'taker' and my friends knows that I am being caring and chivalrous and not really 'interested'.
Just because he's more caring, it doesn't mean he's 'into' you. Maybe it will turn out into something more if you reciprocate and express your feelings to him (if you have such feelings). Be honest with him since he seems to be good friend and an affectionate kind of guy.
2007-03-06 16:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by amn1717 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you... Does he poke every ones rib?? or touch others like he does to you?? if not then something else is running in this head.... just leave things as they are for some more days... if he likes you he will surely give you some hint or tell it directly to you...
But touching your arms and poking your rib etc can also be for some other reason(i think you can understand what I'm trying to say) so try to be careful while coming to any conclusion...
2007-03-06 16:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me that this guy is in attracted to you! Generally, men are not prone to romantic urges and actions. They don't show that they care about the person. So, based on what you have written, I think it is safe to assume that this guy has feelings for you. However, you should not allow this to create a "safety net" for you and your heart. You must give it some time before you can actually validate his feelings for you. If you really like this guy, you have to give it more time.
2007-03-06 16:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by MimiUdang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i quess the first question is are you interested in him? if so just come out and ask him. i think hes very flirty but i also think he may like you and want to go out with you other then just co-workers. so just get up the nerve and ask him. tell him you are getting vibes from him in the way he acts trawds you and just see what he says, if he says no then your not out anything unless you want to go out with him. if he says yes and thats what you wants then i say go for it. i hope this helps. :)
2007-03-06 16:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...its hard to say. have you ever tried asking him? if your friendship with him is strong enough, this shouldnt mess things up between you too. if you think that asking him wouldnt be a good idea, you can either just sit back and see if anything happens eventually or you can try to make a move yourself. whatever you do, goodluck!
2007-03-06 16:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by How Sweet It Is 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he really does. Look around, if he gives you more attention than he does to others, it is a sure thing.
2007-03-06 16:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Willie Wonky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance and se if he takes it, if you like him then go for it.
2007-03-06 16:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Darcy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sound charming and I would say he likes you alot .dont let him slip away .Good luck
2007-03-06 16:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just natural personality he might feel really comfortable with you so that why he do that stuff.
2007-03-06 16:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him an opportunity and see if he takes it...
2007-03-06 16:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋