If I am so hot? Then why....?

Question

I'm told that I'm hot and pretty all the time, and I know that I'm not ugly. Sometimes I even admire myself in the mirror......

But guys rarely ever come to me, and I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm about to turn 20.

I'm always laughing and am fairly happy (at school anyway, at home it's different, but noone can see me at home). I go hang out with my friends places, so it's not like I don't come across a lot of guys.

I'm getting VERY affectionately frustrated, or else I wouldn't really care......It's pissing me off and making me mad at myself, cuz I don't know what's wrong with me.

What could it be or what should I do?

Answer 1

You might be too hot. As odd as it sounds. At least half of the guys out there(myself included) would never even think about talking to a hot woman. So they will just ignore you. Of the half that are left, most will think you have a boyfriend, because it's rare to find a single hot woman. So that there are not many guys left to even ask you out.(say 10% of the guys).

There is nothing 'wrong' with you. Your just who you are. Sooner or later one of those guys will ask you out. You just have a limited pool of guys.

You might want to stay out of the pack of Friends too. No guy will every approach a pack of Friends and ask a hot girl out...