my brother stayed the night with me last night and he was saying that his girlfriends little sister who is about 4 yrs old will get naked in front of everyone and anyone at her house spread her vagina lips? open with her index finger and ring finger and play with her vagina with her middle finger, (of course they stop her) then he said that she walked in on her sister the other day who is 18yrs old and she was just wiping her self from going to the bathroom and the 4yr old asked her if that felt good, my brother told me that the girls uncle had been accused of molesting several other kids in the family but the mom sill allows her to go over there, what do you think and should I say something? they now live out of state but they still go over there for a wkend when they are in town and get to stay with there uncle??
2007-03-06 15:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by Just_me 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
4 year old have no sense of modesty and when they find certain parts of their body they do tend to play with it. It's natural. Whats not natural is what she said to the 18 yr old. that's not something a typical 4 year old would know to say. I recently went through this with my nephew. he spent the night and kept making comments about how its OK for boys to get naked and hug. as a mother of 2 young boys my husband and I started immediately asking questions. This definitely raised up a red flag and we had to sit his mother down and talk. what is it with mothers that are so damn oblivious to things. my sister in law (who is a promiscuous single mother) thought nothing of it. HELLO! someone needs to address that issue to the mother especially if the uncle has been accused of that in the past.
2007-03-06 16:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is normal for a child to play with themselves at most any age, but it is not normal for them to do it in the open, and it is not usually a normal thing that they would ask if something felt good. I think that you should report this to CPS because there is most likely something going on there I am just not sure what.
2007-03-07 01:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal for kids that age to touch themselves but she's going beyond the normal touching that they do. Her parents need to take her to a counselor it sounds like someone is either touching her or having her touch herself. Either way it's molestation and could screw her up.
2007-03-07 00:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by makalas_mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for little kids to touch themselves but the way she is doing it sounds really strange. i would be just a little concerned!
2007-03-07 00:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by n&z-mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get that child some help
all kids touch themselves but thats not what she is doing she needs someone to help her
2007-03-07 01:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way she is doing it is not good someone is playing some false act with her .
2007-03-07 00:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ hello_kitty_xoxo ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋